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Index
Abbey March 27/09
Accept Yourself! Dec 13/08
Already Complete Nov 6/08
Am I a Children March 13/09
An Angel Named Jo Nov 13/08
Apple Pie and Memories Feb 13/09
Are there angels Nov 10/08
Are You a Bucket Filler or a Dipper Feb 24/09
(The) arms of a mother May 13/09
Band of love Nov 25/09
BEAUTIFUL OLD PEOPLE Jan 1/09
BANSHEES AT 3 O'CLOCK Oct 10/08
Be kind Nov 18/08
BE LOYAL TO THOSE ABSENT Jan 19/09
Be passionate through life Feb 24/09
Beautiful Life Oct 15/08
Beggar At The Door March 27/09
Behind the Mirror June 3/09
BEING RICH Dec 9/08
Believe in your heart Oct 4/08
Bench Marks Sept 26/08
Benny's Shambles Feb 4/09
Best Dad Sept 18/09
Best Gift Ever Jan 6/09
Best Teacher Ever March 6/09
Best Time Of My Life Feb 9/09
Beveled Glass Box Sept 8/09
Big Wheel Dec 18/08
(The) Black Belt May 6/09
Bob from Church August 1/09
BONDING OVER BEEF Dec 5/08
BOOKS May 15/09
(The) Box May 13/09
(The) Boys of Iwo Jima May 27/09
Boys on the Corner Jan 26/09
BROKEN HEARTS Oct 4/08
Broken Wing March 13/09
The Bud Takes a Risk Dec 27/08
Building Your House April 3/09
BULLISH ON LIFE May 11/09
Bunny and Bear Pancakes Feb 9/09
Busy April 8/09
Cab Ride Jan 19/09
Can I Borrow $25 Feb 13/09
Can You Hear The Rain May 6/09
Can you pass the triple filter test Sept 30/09
Careful What You Wish For May 22/09
CARPENTER'S TOOLS had a meeting April 8/09
Cat Who Needed a Night Light March 20/09
CHANCE TO LIVE May 3/09
Charles Schultz Philosophy Jan 18/10
Charlie Oct 17/08
CHEERFUL THOUGHTS LIGHTEN DARKEST FEARS April 8/09
(A) child's angel Nov 24/08
Child of God Oct 8/08
Child's Ten Commandments to Parents Jan 14/09
Chocolate Oct 17/08
Chocolate sings March 16/09
Chopper March 9/09
Chris-T-Fur March 1/10
Christmas Is Coming Dec 18/08
Christmas in Heaven Dec 11/08
Christmas is for Love Dec 21/09
Christmas Poem Dec 3/08
Christmas Spirit Dec 1/08
Christmas story Dec 5/08
Christmas story to warm your heart. Dec 13/08
Christmas, 2004 Dec 18/08
Church Dog March 2/09
Childhood doesnt wait Sept 24/09
CINDERELLA STORY Aug 16/09
COAL BASKET BIBLE Feb 25/09
COINCIDENCE Feb 6/09
(The) Come-Uppance Jan 6/09
Come Walk With Me Dec 3/08
(The) Comforter Sept 30/08
Could I Be A Grand Canyon Feb 2/09
CROSSWALK Oct 20/08
Cruiser Bruiser Dec 5/08
Cyber Step-Mother Feb 27/09
DAD'S BELT march 2/09
Dance With Me Oct 4/08
DANIEL'S GLOVES May 19/09
Daniel's Story March 20/09
Dashes and Pinches Nov 17/08
(A) Daughters Love Feb 6/09
Day at the Circus March 30/09
DAYS IN BETWEEN Jan 10/09
Death of a tree Aug 16/09
Degrees of Giving Nov 27/08
DIAMOND IN THE ROUGH Oct 14/08
(A) different side of Christmas Dec 3/08
Dirt Roads Nov 10/08
Do You Smell That Feb 18/09
(The) Doll & The White Rose Oct 10/08
Don't Abandon Your Dream Feb 13/09
Don't look back Feb 27/09
Dont Settle For Less Than Your Best Feb 2/10
(A) dozen Christmas roses Dec 1/08
Dreams always come true in the Land of Real Reality FEb 4/09
DREAM THAT WILL CATCH YOUR HEART Jan 26/09
(My) Drug of Choice Nov 27/08
(The) Duck & the Devil Feb 18/09
Embers Glowed Dec 30/08
Empty Easter Egg March 26/09
Everybody Knows April 8/09
Faith April 17/09
(The) Fall of Life Sept 24/09
(THE) FAREWELL LETTER FROM A FAMOUS WRITER Jan 8/09
Father, Son, Talks Oct 22/08
Father Time loses his cool Jan 6/09
Feathered fidelity April 27/09
15 things God wont ask Feb 27/09
(A) Fish Out of Water June 10/09
Flag Waving Cowboys Nov 12/08
(A) FLASH OF RED Dec 13/08
FLYING HIGH may 8/09
For Christmas.... Dec 11/08
For my grandchildren Oct 17/08
Forgiveness And Positive Living March 30/09
Fresh Power for Christmas Dec 22/08
FRIENDSHIP May 25/09
FRIGHT NIGHT Oct 24/08
(The) Frogs March 27/09
From Time to Time Dec 9/08
Four-Legged Comedians April 14/09
Gift of Beauty April 24/09
GIVE April 27/09
Guardian angel protects couple in traffic accidents March 25/09
Gentle Beast Nov 3/08
Gifts that don't cost a cent Dec 11/08
Give me a Brake July 17/09
Give time to love Oct 14/08
Go with the flow April 6/09
God Is... May 15/09
God Is The Friend Of Silence Dec 1/08
God's Embroidery Nov 6/09
God's Perfection Oct 14/08
Gods Wings August 7/09
Golf Lesson May 20/09
Gone in a flash Sept 18/09
Good Advice May 13/09
Grandma's Apron Jan 7/10
Grandma's last Halloween Oct 22/08
Gratitude Nov 3/08
Guy in the glass Nov 10/08
Heart Song May 20/09
He'll hold your seat Aug 24/09
He's My Brother Jan 14/10
HIT BY AN ANGEL April 20/09
HITCHHIKER April 10/09
Hold her and love her Sept 30/09
Hold on Tightly March 4/09
Holding Hands Feb 23/09
Holiday Lights Dec 22/08
Hyderadbad Mama Nov 17/08
Keep believing in yourself June 17/09
I BELIEVE Dec 22/08
I have a Dream Dec 11/08
I Saw God Today Nov 6/08
I stood in the rain Nov 2/09
I Want to be a Mountain Jan 3/10
I Wish You Enough! June 5/09
Its a Dad's job Aug 16/09
Radiant View of Life June 5/09
If you could see Feb 4/09
If you have a dream Nov 17/08
If You Love Her Enough Nov 17/08
I'm a Skunk Feb 20/10
I'm Sorry, Kitty May 3/09
In Honor Of The Women In My Life Feb 24/09
In the Face of Adversity Sept 13/09
In the Smallest Way Oct 8/09
It Doesnt Interest Me Dec 2/09
It's All About Character April 10/09
It was Just a Simple Cookie Dec 30/09
It was too late Nov 12/09
I Wait for you Jan 29/10
Jesus is Better than Santa Dec 24/09
(My) journey from Christianity to Love---a must read if you ever feared Hell Sept 30/08
JOY JUICE June 3/09
Juggling your life March 26/09
Just Stay Feb 6/09
(The) Last Sunday Dec 9/08
Laughing with Dad Oct 31/08
LEAN ON ME Dec 23/08
Legend of the Christmas Spiders Dec 9/08
Lesson for a Lifetime Nov 24/08
Lessons From The Real World Dec 5/08
LET GO AND LOVE MORE March 10/09
Let Him take the wheel August 1/09
Let me be a child again Dec 23/08
(The) Letter Feb 24/09
Letter For Mom Sept 30/09
Letter From Mom April 29/09
Life after Death Nov 13/08
Life as We Feel It May 6/09
Life is a Bag of Frozen Peas Jan 19/09
Life is Precious Dc 18/08
Lighted World Nov 10/08
Lightning Bugs July 17/09
Listening to the Whispers Within Sept 29/08
Little Boys Prayer March 24/09
Little Girl Found Jan 6/09
Little House Cleaning May 20/09
Little Lady Who Changed My Life Oct 4/08
(A) little moment of joy Feb 23/09
Little Shot of Appreciation Nov 24/08
(A) Little Struggle Oct 24/08
Living Our Values Feb 13/09
LIVING THE GOOD LIFE Dec 11/08
Look Out, Baby, I'm Your Love Man Dec 3/08
LOST AT SEA Sept 30/08
Love is Truth May 11/09
Love Lessons From a Mothers Heart May 15/09
Love Notes May 19/09
Love without Measure Feb 2/10
Luxurious Presence March 16/09
Make those last words count Nov 6/09
(The) man who kept Christmas Dec 16/08
Maybe July 6/09
Mayonnaise Jar Jan 6/09
The Meaning of 11 Nov 12/09
Memory Lane Dec 11/08
Memory Tree Dec 13/08
Midlife Crisis Jan 28/09
(A) miracle of tears August 7/09
(The) Mitzvah Dec 13/08
Mom May 15/09
Moment of Clarity Sept 28/09
MOM'S OLD, USELESS BIBLE Jan 19/09
Mom's Wisdom Oct 8/08
More people should chew straws May 29/09
More Than a Friend Feb 2/09
(The) most important part Dec 5/08
(A) Mother Sings May 13/09
Mouse pastor coins humorous poetic prayer for blessing April 29/09
My Father's Angels Oct 10/08
My Little Buddy April 29/09
My Special Valentine Feb 13/09
My Twelve Most Memorable Moments with You Dec 30/09
Never Give In Oct 17/08
(The) new Pastor Dec 30/08
(The) Night the Mars People Landed Oct 24/08
NO BONES ABOUT IT Oct 10/08
No More With Me Nov 10/08
No Santa? Dec 20/08
North Wind and The Sun. April 27/09
Not Just another Town August 1/09
NOT JUST HOPE Jan 1/09
Obedience Class for Mother Jan 26/09
Old Felt Hat June 3/09
Old Shoes Have a Purpose Jan 14/09
Once Upon A Time... Feb 16/09
One-Armed Man Jan 19/09
One Horse Town Sept 26/08
One piece at a time Oct 21/09
ONLY ANSWER THAT REALLY MATTERS March 24/09
ONLY FOR LOVE Dec 20/08
(The) Open, Sesame! of Life March 9/09
Operation Teddy Bear Dec 18/08
Pancakes For God Jan 23/09
Paying the Price For Our Values Oct 31/08
Paw prints on your heart April 20/09
(The) Pebble Oct 4/08
Perfect Mistake Jan 21/09
Personally Professional May 25/09
Perspective March 9/09
(The) Photograph Oct 27/08
(The) Piano Student Sept 28/09
Pick up your oars and start rowing April 10/09
Picture Of Peace March 18/09
Plant A Seed June 17/09
Pleasing the People We Love May 8/09
Plum Pretty Sister Dec 20/08
Poem That Gives You Goosebumps... March 27/09
Polly's Magic Pea Jan 21/09
Porch Sittin' Jan 21/09
Possessions to Suit Our Principles May 1/09
Pounding In and Pulling Out Nails Aug 24/09
Power of a prayer Nov 3/08
POWER OF BREAKING FREE Jan 19/09
Praying for Those Who Dream Oct 22/08
Precious Moments Jan 14/09
Promise yourself Nov 18/08
Pyramid of Friends June 17/09
Quilt of Holes Dec 20/08
(The) Race Nov 18/08
Radiant View of Life June 5/09
Rambling Ducks Dec 30/08
REAL BEAUTY March 26/09
Realize Life Now Jn 8/09
Red Roses Sept 29/08
(My) Resignation Oct 4/08
Riches of Easter April 8/09
Rekindle Your Love Feb 16/10
Right from Wrong June 3/09
Right Thing to Do April 24/09
Road of Life... Jan 10/09
Road To Success is Always Under Construction Jan 29/10
Room filled March 27/09
Run With Intent Jan 1/09
Rustic Cabin in the Woods Dec 30/08
RUSTLING RASPBERRIES jan 19/09
Santa Claus: The true story Dec 13/08
Santa Paul Dec 20/08
Santa's Love Dec 22/08
See me Nov 24/08
(The) Seed Jan 26/09
Seeker of Truth Feb 24/09
SEEING JESUS Dec 18/08
Shiloh at the Rainbow Bridge Jan 20/09
SHINING MOMENT Feb 12/09
SHOPPING August 1/09
SHORT WALK Dec 18/08
SITTING ON YOUR TALENT Feb 24/09
63 Years Ago Oct 17/08
Slingshot Slavery May 20/09
SOMEBODY LOVES YOU March 13/09
SOMETHING FOR NOTHING March 30/09
Something To Someone Dec 1/08
(A) Special Place Dec 2/09
Special Victory Nov 27/08
Stand by them April 29/09
Stonewall and the Yankee Trains Feb 2/09
Student Named Tommy Feb 3/09
Summers End Oct 8/09
SWEETEST SOUND Jan 8/09
Tale of Six Boys Nov 17/08
(The) Tall Man March 12/10
Take control of you March 24/09
Take My Son Jan 14/09
Take the Plunge Feb 9/09
Tattered bookmark Aug 28/09
Tears from the heart Nov 21/08
Tenent Farmers Nov 21/08
Terry Fox Van Oct 4/08
Thanks for what Nov 18/08
That Special Day - a True Account of Finding a Soul Mate April 20/09
Theology of Faith March 9/09
There is a Santa; He Married Her Dec 14/09
These Old Hands Jan 6/09
They'll Be Fine May 6/09
This is Your Life Dec 3/08
Those without trouble laugh the loudest August 7/09
365 Days From Now You'll Know Whether You Did Or You Didn't Nov 27/08
Three Trees for an Ash Wednesday March 4/09
They're Wiser Than I Thought Jan 18/10
Time to Let Go Nov 6/08
Tippy May 22/09
To Any Service Member Oct 22/08
To Catch a Queen Feb 16/09
Today has passed March 10/09
TOUCHING TALE Nov 24/08
True meaning of Christmas Dec 16/08
TRUTH, HONOR AND SALT & PEPPER SANDWICHES April 29/09
25,550 Days Oct 14/08
Under Santa's Hat Dec 24/09
Values Nov 13/08
Waiting For Someone Special May 3/09
(THE) WALK May 22/09
Walking with Bandit Jan 21/09
Want to Borrow a Jack March 6/09
Warm Memories of Ice Feb 6/09
(The) Wars April 6/09
(The) way back home May 20/09
(THE) WAY WE SEE IT May 19/09
Wealth, Success and Love Oct 1/08
(The) weight of the world July 25/09
We'll See Feb 12/09
Well worn habits, take time to change June 3/09
WHAT HAPPENS IN HEAVEN Oct 4/08
What I've learned Nov 17/08
What, Me Worry Feb 3/09
What My Father Left Behind Feb 23/09
What's Miraculous Dec 13/08
WHAT'S TRULY IMPORTANT Oct 17/08
WHAT’S WAITING FOR US AT HOME Sept 26/08
When grandma was ready for winter Dec 20/08
When I Kneel Down To Pray Oct 22/08
When life gets hard Feb 27/09
WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU A KICK Jan10/09
(THE) WHISPER Feb 20/09
Whispers April 20/09
Whispers of a child s love Oct 21/09
Why Are You Crying Feb 20/09
Why The Elephants Don't Run Jan 26/09
Why, God, Why Oct 24/08
Will You Dance With Me Aug 16/09
Window Salesman Oct 27/08
Windows of the heart Nov 10/08
Wings Jan 19/09
Woman and a Fork Sept 26/08
Wonderful Life April 3/09
WONDERFUL MEMORIES Oct 4/08
Working Holiday Dec 27/08
Yesterday Nov12/08
YOU CAN BEGIN AGAIN April 14/09
You can't steal my Christmas Dec 23/08
YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW!!! Jan 18/10
Your Actions Do Count Oct 17/08
Your sun will shine again March 4/09
The Tall Man Story Editor:
by Caitlin Mercer Joyce Schowalter
California, USA
It didn't start out as a big deal. We were waiting to board our flight out of Portland, Oregon, heading to Ontario, California on a Friday evening. The gate had been changed, and everyone was now just anxious to get on the plane and get home.
A man escorted an elderly Asian couple through the line. I assumed he was their son. At the head of the line, it was clear the couple spoke almost no English. A gate attendant was kind enough to escort them out onto the tarmac and onto the right gangway to our plane.
I boarded the plane a few moments behind them and witnessed some confusion. The couple had taken the first two open seats, not understanding the seat numbers on their boarding passes.
A tall man tried to show them how to identify the correct seat numbers, and when they didn't understand, he motioned to them to follow him, and kindly guided them to their correct seats.
I noted his kind act and smiled, though I figured it was the sort of little kindness any one of us would do.
We waited for an eternity to depart, and finally the captain announced that there was minor trouble with a cargo net and we would be delayed. After more time passed, we were advised we would need to deplane and wait for another plane.
I thought immediately of the Asian couple and how confusing this would be for them. I waited for one of my carry-on luggage pieces to come out of the cargo hold, and when I got into the terminal I looked for them. I needn't have worried. The same tall man was with them.
He guided them to the terminal where we were to wait, gesturing for them to stick with him. Our terminal was now overcrowded with impatient commuters waiting for the replacement flight, and there was nowhere for them to sit with three adjacent seats.
The tall man spotted a woman sitting alone with an empty seat on each side of her and explained that he was looking after the couple. He asked if she would be willing to give up her seat, and she graciously did so.
We waited another 45 minutes before boarding the new plane. The tall man sat with the couple during the wait, made sure they found the restroom, got a cup of coffee, a snack, anything they needed.
Maybe another aggravated, tired commuter would have seen this as a pain in the neck. But this man didn't. I'm not sure if it "put him out" to help them. When the opportunity arose, he took responsibility for seeing it through. Really, it seemed he hardly saw it as an inconvenience at all -- just a chance to do good.

The
litter of puppies snuggled close to their protective mother. With her
nourishment, they grew quickly. In a few weeks, they were waddling around,
exploring
their new home. They were healthy and happy, but one little guy was different.
He was
smaller and developed at a much slower rate. They called him Chris-T-Fur.
Chris-T-Fur tried to keep up with his brothers and sisters, but always fell
behind
the pack. He'd run in their direction but would slam into the walls and
furniture. Tom and
his wife Carolyn-Jo grew concerned and had him examined. The vet said, "I'm
sorry,
Tom. Chris-T-Fur is blind. His left eye is totally defective, and he has a
juvenile cataract
in his right. He may have a little vision in that one, but it isn't much. You
need to make a decision."
Tom
and his wife both worked with the disabled. Carolyn-Jo was a physical
education teacher for severely disabled children. Tom worked with adults with
hearing
loss. Their little Chris-T-Fur deserved as much of a chance as anyone. "Doc,
we'll take
him home and love him as much as our other dogs." Tom said.
Chris
quickly worked his way into their hearts - a special kinship was formed.
Later, Chris-T-Fur developed a seizure disorder. After a seizure, he had to walk
it off. He
walked all over the house, bumping into everything.
Chris-T-Fur learned the sound of Tom's car. He'd hear him coming and run down
the driveway and crash headfirst into the metal gate. "It's a wonder you still
have a nose,
Chris." Tom laughed. "Now go back to the house." Chris-T-Fur turned and ran back
up
the driveway, bouncing off the brick wall - using it as his guide.
On
outings, Chris ran with the other dogs, barking at things he couldn't see. He
ran into fences, bushes, trees, and even over banks. Did it slow him down? No!
Chris-T-
Fur would get up - a little dazed - shake it off, and continued his pursuit. He
wanted to be
part of the pack.
The
other dogs became intolerant of him, especially when they were settled down
with a bone or treat. When Chris walked by, they growled or snapped at him. They
didn't
understand he couldn't see their bone. Chris was just looking for own.
At
night, Tom sat to work at his computer. Within a few minutes, he'd hear
Chris-T-Fur enter the room. Chris sniffed the air and detected Tom's location.
Tom
would hear the familiar thud, as Chris bumped into his chair. He'd turn, give
Chris a
scratch behind his ears, a couple of pats on his head, and show Chris all the
love he felt
for his little dog. Chris would then wandered off to another part of the house.
At
dinner, Tom purposely dropped a few "Kibbles©" on the floor. Chris-T-Fur
was quick to hear the sound. With a few sniffs of his over-sensitive nose, he'd
locate his
treat.
In
spite of all his disabilities, Chris-T-Fur was a happy dog. He was friendly and
always ready to be Tom's companion. He was Tom's little hero. He didn't have a
pedigree, but he was top dog in Tom's book. Tom knew he would one day have a
void in
his life where Chris-T-Fur used to be. Until then, Tom had a daily reminder that
the
struggles he face are insignificant compared to what others deal with.
Chris-T-Fur knew, if you get knocked down, pick yourself up, and brush yourself
off. He taught Tom how important it was to keep a positive attitude.
Michael T. Smith
PART 2
I
wrote this story in the spring of 2006. In October of that year, I received the
following
email from Tom.
Michael, dear friend
I
fear I have some tragic news to relay. I lost my beloved wife Carolyn-Jo this
week.
Back in Sept. she was involved in a terrible explosion in our RV while at camp.
She and our five dogs were inside when a propane gas leak caused a horrible
explosion.
Carolyn Jo was burned over 40% of her body and the dogs were badly singed with
only a
couple sustaining minor burns. Chris-T-Fur was frightened and ran away as did
our deaf
dog. The two we try to give extra care to because of their disabilities.
Fortunately they
were both found later that night. All the dogs were traumatized but have
recovered.
Carolyn-Jo fought valiantly for over a month and a half to recover from her
wounds and other complications acquired at the hospital. My four daughters and I
made
the daily trip into the hospital (50+ miles one way) everyday to be with her and
encourage her but finally her body could not support her blood pressure any
longer and
we had to make sure that she was kept comfortable and pain free as long as was
possible
until she made her transition.
I was
blessed with 33 years with the most wonderful wife, friend and mother any
man could ever ask for. Not only have I had the wrenching duty to tell my
children that
their mother was about to die but after she was gone and we came home I had to
tell our
five dogs that mom wasn't coming home again. Some understood and sensed it ahead
of
time but my pal Chris-T-Fur still waits by the gate at 4:00 every day for mom to
come
home. It just tears me up to see him sit there, unable to see, listening for her
car and
hoping to smell her scent come home.
It's
not only hard for us to say good bye but it's hard for our beloved pets to say
good bye too. We're having a memorial service this coming Saturday and as part
of it we
are having a slide show in celebration of her life. Of course a large segment
will include
pictures of her with her doggies. Those who knew my loving wife know how much
she
loved her dogs. During the service the minister is going to do a reading of
"Rainbow
Bridge."
I
know that my wonderful wife is now perfect, whole and complete again and is
being greeted by all her dogs that have gone before her in her higher expression
of life.
Thank
you, Michael, for sharing so many doggy stories with your readers I've shared
them with Carolyn Jo, almost the only e-mail that she'd read! I'm going to still
enjoy your
writing and I know she will too telepathically.
God Bless you friend
Tom
NOTE:
I haven't heard from Tom in several years. His phone number and email no
longer work. I can only pray he and Chris-T-Fur are safe and sound.
Why I call you "Friends who Wave Back".
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I'm
a Skunk
I pulled my car into the garage and stepped outside. It was a
beautiful evening.
Stars sparkled in the dark sky, unusual for the area we lived then, which is
close to the
bright lights of Manhattan and Jersey City.
Instead of going inside, I walked around the corner, away from the
streetlight. In
the shadows, I looked up. Stars dotted the sky - more than I'd seen since I
lived in Nova
Scotia, where, free from city lights, the Milky Way cut a wide swath through the
darkness
overhead.
"Ginny needs to see this." I thought and turned to go in. In my
lower vision,
in spite of the darkness, I noticed movement. I paused and looked down. A white
line
moved inches from my feet.
Fear caused me to hold my breath. The word, "Skunk!" screamed in my
head.
I stood still. "Don't move a muscle! Maybe it will go away." I thought to
myself. The
skunk strolled away from me and entered an area illuminated by the streetlight.
I breathed
a sigh of relief. It hadn't seen me.
It was just a baby, maybe a foot long, but it doesn't take much of a
skunk to cause
a huge stink. When I thought it was safe, I inched my way along the edge of the
house,
toward the corner and the safety of my garage.
I was a few feet from the corner when the skunk, who must have
sensed me,
turned in my direction. We both froze. "Shoo!!" I said, waving my hands. "Go
away!" I
said sternly, waving my hands at it again.
The young skunk, who apparently didn't understand English, moved
toward me. I
backed up. "Sho, little fella. Go away!"
It turned and began to walk away, but as soon as I moved in the
direction of the
garage, it turned, and once again came at me. Before it got too close, I rounded
the
corner, and entered the lighted garage.
I peeked out. The little skunk was still coming. "Sho!" I said a
final time and
dashed to the door leading into the house. I hit the button beside door. The
garage
creaked and groaned as it closed. "That was close." I thought to myself.
The next morning, when I came down stairs to get ready for work,
Ginny said to
me, "Mike, there's something in the garage. I was down there. Something is
scratching
around in the corner by the recycling."
"Skunk!" I said.
"It might be."
"No! You don't understand." I told her the story about the young
skunk who tried
to attack me the night before. "I bet it followed me into the garage."
We tip-toed down the steps and opened the door. The scratching came
from the
far corner of the garage. I reached out and hit the button. The garage door
rumbled to life
and slowly opened. Sunlight steamed in, lighting the corner where the noise came
from. The scratching continued.
I inched toward the noise. It seemed to come from one of my blue
recycling
containers. I peeked inside. "Uh Oh!"
"What?" Ginny asked.
"I was right. It's the skunk. It did follow me in. It must have
climbed onto the
boxes and fallen into the container. The sides are too high for it to get out."
"What are you going to do?"
"I don't know. I guess I'll drag the container outside, roll it over
and run."
I stooped low, kept out of the skunk's view and aim, and slowly
dragged the
container across the floor. Like a bomb squad member, trying to cause as little
disturbance as possible, I pulled it out the door, across the driveway and into
the grass.
"OK! Here we go." I said to Ginny. I tipped the can on its side and
ran back to the
garage. Together we watched the skunk waddle out and begin to walk away.
"Michael, it's just a baby. It's so cute."
"Cute? It's a skunk. Can you imagine what the garage would smell
like if it had
squirted in there?"
"It's just a baby. Maybe it wasn't going to hurt you. You said it
was coming at
you. If it felt threatened, it would have turned and raised its tail. I think it
wanted a
friend."
"You could be right, but I'm not sure I want to take the chance." I
replied.
"If you see it again, just stand there and see what it does." Ginny
said.
"You could be right."
I never got the chance. A few weeks later, I was walking home from
the store.
In the middle of the street was my little skunk. It tried to cross the street
and been hit by a
car.
With a heavy heart, I continued home. I'd never been sprayed by a
skunk and
don't know of anyone who has been. My fear of the little skunk came from stories
I'd
heard and read. Without any personal experience with skunks, I had a prejudice,
which
caused me to be afraid of them. The little skunk was too young to have a fear of
humans.
It was on its own that night and wanted a friend.
It made me wonder, how many times in my life have I turned my back
on
someone because of a prejudice created by what others thought?
"Don't play with him. He's nothing but trouble." my friends said.
"I'd stay away from her. She stole my pencil." a classmate warned.
"He's strange. He never talks to anyone." a co-worker said about
another.
Those words caused me to be prejudice. Maybe the trouble maker was
really
calling out for attention. Maybe they needed a friend. The girl who stole the
pencil may
have been from a poor family and couldn't afford a new one to replace one she
lost.
The co-worker actually turned into a great friend. He was just very
shy.
The little skunk was in this world for only a short time, but he
changed me. I no
longer let the things people say about another to cloud my judgment. I put all
prejudices
aside and give people the chance to show me who they are. And if anyone ever
calls me a
skunk, I'm going to take it as a compliment, because maybe I'm just looking to
be their
friend.
Michael T. Smith
Why I call you "Friends who Wave Back".
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Rekindle Your Love
I held Ginny's hand as we walked up the stone steps to the entry of
the
Anniversary Inn in Boise, Idaho. Leaves fell around us like big colorful
snowflakes. I
looked up at the towering black locust trees and remembered how they filled the
air
with their heavenly scent when we stayed here in the spring. It was hard to
believe we
were in the center of the city. The surroundings, with the mountains in the
background,
seemed more like a country estate.
I opened the door for my beautiful wife. We were greeted with a
pleasant smile
from the young lady behind the front desk. The smell of fleshly-baked chocolate
chip
cookies filled the air. "Can it get any better?" I asked myself - a beautiful
woman on my
arm, a smile and cookies.
On this visit, we selected the "French Canopy" room and were not
disappointed.
We opened the door to the tastefully decorated room - fireplace, queen sized
canopied
bed, 52" TV, and a two person jetted tub. In the refrigerator, two slices of
cheese cake
awaited our taste buds.
We closed the door. There was silence. We were alone in our own
little world.
Ginny and I live with her daughter, son-in-law, and their four children. Silence
and
privacy are precious things.
We unpacked and went to dinner at one of the nearby restaurants.
When we
returned with our bellies full, I stretched out on the comfortable bed and
...fell asleep.
I woke at midnight. Ginny laughed at me. "Now that you are awake, I'm ready for
bed."
"I'm sorry, Baby." I apologized. "I didn't mean to fall asleep."
"It's OK."
I sat, read and enjoy the fire. Ginny slept. At 4 AM, I noticed her
stirring. I went
to the hot tub and turned on the water. She opened her eyes. "You're bath is
drawn, my
love."
She smiled.
We slipped into the warmth of the water and into each other's arms.
Later, I lay awake. Ginny's arm stretched across my chest. Her hand
rested on my
shoulder. Her leg draped over my hip, and her foot tucked between my knees. I
listened
to her breath softly and smelled the scent of her hair. I thought about how much
I love
her. We found each other late in life, but experience a love like nothing either
of us had
experienced before. In the glow from the fire, I joined her in sleep.
We checked out later that morning. As we left, I couldn't help
noticing the other
guests as they left. Love was in the air. Everyone smiled. Hands were held.
Signs of
affection were openly displayed. They felt like Ginny and I did - full of love.
It was wonderful to get away - a night just for us. The Anniversary
Inn provided
the perfect setting to be us - a couple in love.
I held Ginny's hand. At the top of the stairs, I put down our bags,
kissed her and
said, "I love you, Ginny."
She smiled and said, "I love you more."
We walked to the car. I thought about my feelings and of the other
guests I saw
leaving, and knew everyone needs to do this. Every couple needs a chance to
rekindle
your love.
Michael T. Smith
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Freda Bright says, 'Only in opera do people die of love.' It's true. You really can't love somebody to death. I've known people to die from no love, but I've never known anyone to be loved to death. We just can't love one another enough.
A heart-warming story tells of a woman who finally decided to ask her boss for a raise in salary. All day she felt nervous and apprehensive. Late in the afternoon she summoned the courage to approach her employer. To her delight, the boss agreed to a raise.
The woman arrived home that evening to a beautiful table set with their best dishes. Candles were softly glowing. Her husband had come home early and prepared a festive meal. She wondered if someone from the office had tipped him off. Or did he just somehow know that she would not get turned down?
She found him in the kitchen and told him the good news. They embraced and kissed, then sat down to the wonderful meal. Next to her plate the woman found a beautifully lettered note. It read: 'Congratulations, darling! I knew you'd get the raise! These things will tell you how much I love you.'
Following the supper, her husband went into the kitchen to clean up. She noticed that a second card had fallen from his pocket. Picking it off the floor, she read: 'Don't worry about not getting the raise! You deserve it anyway! These things will tell you how much I love you.'
Someone has said that the measure of love is when you love without measure. What this man feels for his spouse is total acceptance and love, whether she succeeds or fails. His love celebrates her victories and soothes her wounds.
He stands with her, no matter what life throws in their direction. He may say that he loves her to death. But he doesn't. He loves her to life. For his love nourishes her life like nothing else can.
Upon receiving the Nobel Peace Prize, Mother Teresa said: 'What can you do to promote world peace? Go home and love your family.' And love your friends. Love them without measure. Love them to life.
Written
by Steve Goodier
Steve Goodier publishes This is Your Life Support System, a free e-newsletter
sharing life, love and laughter.

Don't Settle For Less Than Your
Best
Many years ago, my first wife and I decided to add an addition to
our house.
We had contractors to the bulk of the work, while I did the smaller jobs. I did
all the
siding on both the old and new sections of our house. I installed 1000 square
feet of
parquet flooring and glued tiles to the floor in front of the fireplace. The
older part of the
house was done with paneling. I replaced it with sheetrock and did the crack
filling as
well. I sanded wood, painted walls, and installed moldings and baseboards. In
the new
bathroom, I cut and glued Formica.
It took more than a year to complete. I wasn't a carpenter or a
builder. I didn't
have a clue how to do any of it, however, there were how-to books to study and
friends
who gave advice.
I made many mistakes. Above the kitchen cabinets was a portion of
sheetrock, I
couldn't reach with my drill. A section of it dipped down from the piece beside
it. I
cracked-filled the gap as best as I could, but it was visible to anyone with a
keen eye.
There were places around the doors and windows where the moldings
didn't meet
evenly, because I cut a piece a fraction of a inch too short. It was the same
with the
baseboards and the parquet flooring.
"Michael!" Georgia scolded, "You made a mess of that!"
"Hun, it's in the corner! Who's going to notice? If someone sees
that, then they're
too nosey." I sighed and reassured her, "No one will notice!"
Five years later, I lived in a different city. Georgia was back
home, trying to sell
the house. Potential buyers came. They noticed the mistakes and walked away. My
mistakes were small, but they saw every one of them.
I'm not alone. How many of us don't do the best job we can, because
we think no
one will notice? We make mistakes. We can't hide them, but we can fix them. One
day
we'll be judged, and we'll be ashamed to admit, we didn't do our best.
Are you settling for less than your best?
Michael T. Smith
Why I call you "Friends who Wave
Back"-
Happiest Day
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After her husband died, Evelyn was lost. The house was empty. She missed her
John-John, as she used to playfully call him. The wind howled. Snow and ice hit
the
windows with such force, it sounded like marbles stored in an old tin cookie
box. These
were the nights she and John-John would sit by the fire and play scrabble. Later
they
would cuddle under the covers and hold each other to stay warm.
The cancer struck hard and fast. John lasted three pain-filled
months. She
remembered his last words, "Ev, I love you and promise to take care of you." His
chemo-
ravaged body gave out that night.
Evelyn sighed. There would be no more cuddling. All she had were the
dolls she
made for the children at the orphanage in Caldwell. It was a hobby she took up
to pass
the time after John-John died. She was surprised to find she was very good at
it. Besides
the ones she gave to the children, she also made a nice income selling others at
craft fairs.
She picked up an unfinished doll and began to work as the storm
pounded the
house. From her lap, his shiny black eyes stared up at her as she admired his
permanent
red smile. Fingering his tiny overalls, she pictured the little ones' faces,
pressed against
the icy windowpanes, waiting for her to arrive with another basket of her
lifelike,
homemade gifts. The last strand of hair was finally in place. As she gently
inserted the
needle to tie a knot, he lurched in her hand and a voice, eerily like
John-John's, said,
"Blood pressure high! Blood pressure high!"
Startled, Evelyn jumped back against the sofa with enough force, had
she been in
a chair, she surely would have tipped it over and cracked her head on the floor.
The doll
flew from her hands and landed on the rug by the fire. It was silent now, but
from its
resting spot, its black eyes stared at her.
Evelyn approached the doll. She reached for it like a person who
holds out a
hand to an unfamiliar dog - unsure if it will bite or lick. A gust of wind shook
the house.
Evelyn jumped back. She laughed at herself. To prove her courage, if only to
herself, she
quickly grabbed up the doll and stared into its eyes. It remained silent and
unmoving in
her hands.
She quickly sewed the last strand of hair in place and put the
finished doll on
the mantel. This one she wouldn't give away. She made a cup of tea and wondered
if she
was losing her mind. "Blood pressure high!" It had said. Now that she thought
about it,
she had been feeling that rushing feeling in her head lately. "Tomorrow, I'm
going to the
doctor." she said to herself.
Dr. Bryant stared at her with concern. "Evelyn, your blood pressure
is 197/127?
Do you realize, if you hadn't come in, you very likely would have had a stroke.
I should
send you to the emergency room, but first I'm going to give you a prescription.
I want
you back here in a few days for a follow up."
That night, Evelyn sat with the doll in her lap. "Maybe my blood
pressure made
me imagine things, but I think you saved my life."
Two years passed. Evelyn went on with her lonely life. She worked
during the
day and made dolls in the evening. The one doll she couldn't give away sat on
the
mantel. She often took it down and held it, but it was silent - until this
night. As she read
a book, the doll, resting in her lap, jumped to life, "Check the Lump! Check the
lump!" it
cried with its all-to-familiar "John-John" voice.
In the silent room, the voice startled her. The doll fell to the
floor and was silent.
She knew what she had to do. The next day Dr. Bryant discovered a small lump in
her
right breast. It was caught in time.
One time Evelyn's aunt Bess visited. Evelyn came from the kitchen
with a tray
of coffee and snacks. Aunt Bess held the doll. "This one is beautiful, Evelyn.
How come
you ..." The crash of the tray hitting the floor cut her off.
"Don't touch that!" Evelyn screamed. She grabbed the doll from Bess.
"I mean ..
well ... it's not finished yet."
"Goodness sakes, girl! I wasn't going to break it." Bess said. "It's just a doll."
"I'm sorry, Aunt Bess. I guess this one means a lot to me."
That night, after Bess left for home, Evelyn held the doll. This
time she didn't
jump when it came to life and said, "Cancer eats!"
Aunt Bess was dead from pancreatic cancer four months later.
Evelyn lived to be 92 years old. During the last forty years, the
doll saved her
from another round of breast cancer, a heart blockage, and kidney infection. It
knew
her father would die from a heart attack, and her brother from liver failure.
On August 5, 2009, Evelyn held the doll in her aged hands. It came
to life
and said, "I wait for you, Ev."
They found her in the morning, sitting by the fire, with the doll in
her lap, and a
smile on her face.
"Bless her heart." Her niece said. "At least she died happy."
Michael T. Smith
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The Road To Success is
Always Under Construction
by Author Unknown
Diplomacy is the art of letting someone else get your way.
Life is not no much a matter of position as of disposition.
The best vitamin for making friends, B-1.
If you don't care where you're going any road will get you there.
A pint of example is worth a gallon of advice.
He who throws mud loses ground.
Nobody raises his own reputation by lowering others.
Nothing ruins the truth like stretching it.
A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
Ideas won't work unless you do.
The future is purchased by the present.
One thing you can't recycle is wasted time.
Lost time is never found again.
A hard thing about business is minding your own.
Triumph is just "umph" added to try.
Caution is not cowardly, Carelessness is not courage.
He who forgives ends the quarrel.
Children need more models than critics.
Frogs have it easy, They can eat what bugs them.
The pursuit of happiness is the chase of a lifetime.
If the going gets easy you may be going downhill.
Dieters - People that are thick and tired of it.
Jumping to conclusions can be bad exercise.
The best labor saving device is doing it tomorrow.
A turtle makes progress when it sticks its neck out.
Failure is the path of least persistence.
Hard work is the yeast that raises the dough.
Patience is counting down without blasting off.
Have a backbone not a wishbone.
Some folks won't look up until they are flat on their backs.
If you want your dreams to come true, don't oversleep.
Friend - One who knows all about you and likes you just the same.
Money talks and often just says, "Good-bye".
Birds have bills too and they keep on singing.
Forbidden fruit is responsible for many a bad jam.
God's retirement plan is out of this world.
A good example is the best sermon.
The Ten Commandments are not multiple choice.
Well done! is better than, Well said!
Minds are like parachutes - they function only when open.
Live as you wish your kids would.
Swallowing your pride seldom leads to indigestion.
If you can laugh at it then you can live with it.
People don't fail, they give up.
When looking for faults use a mirror, not a telescope.
Smile, it takes only 13 muscles; A frown takes 64.
Kindness, a language deaf people can hear and blind can see.
Heaviest thing to carry - a grudge. A smooth sea never made a skillful sailor.
A small leak can sink a great ship.
You can't direct the wind, but you can adjust your sails.
We lie loudest when we lie to ourselves.
Tact is the ability to see others as they wish to be seen.
A bad conscience has a very good memory.
Hug your kids at home - Belt them in the car. One thing you can give and still
keep - is your word.
A friend walks in when everyone else walks out.
If you must cry over spilled milk then please try to condense it.
Behavior is the mirror in which everyone shows their image.
Make friends before you need them.
It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.
The smallest good deed is better than the grandest intention.
Success is … more attitude than aptitude.
Our favorite attitude should be gratitude.
The greatest of all faults is to imagine you have none.
Too many of us speak twice before we think.
Some people develop eye strain looking for trouble.
Everyone has 20/20 hindsight.
The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.
It is much easier to be critical than to be correct.
Feed your faith and doubt will starve to death.
It is no crime not to be perfect.
If others have sinned you need not mention it.
No man knows less than the man who knows it all.
Patience carries a lot of wait.
One who lacks courage to start has already finished.
A quitter never wins, A winner never quits.
Action speaks louder than words but not nearly as often.
Break a bad habit - Drop it.
Don't learn safety rules simply by accident.
Failing to prepare We prepare to fail.
Past failures are guideposts for future success.
There is no right way to do a wrong thing.
There can be no rainbow without a cloud and a storm.
If your dreams turn to dust…vacuum.
Money is a good servant but is a cruel master.
Seek joy in what you give not in what you get.
Procrastination is the thief of time.
Success comes in cans Failure comes in can'ts.
Anger is one letter short of danger Greatest remedy for anger is delay.
2/3 of promotion is motion.
Having a sharp tongue can cut your own throat.
Of all the things you wear, your expression is the most important.

YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW!!! (A
sort of modern-day parable)
The man slowly looked up. This was a woman clearly accustomed to the finer
things
of life. Her coat was new. She looked like she had never missed a meal in her
life. His first thought was that she wanted to make fun of him, like so many
others had done before.
"No," he answered sarcastically. "I've just come from dining with the
president.. Now go away."
The woman's smile became even broader.
"Leave me alone," he growled... To his amazement, the woman continued
standing...
She
was smiling -- her even white teeth displayed in dazzling rows.. "Are you
hungry?" she asked.
Suddenly the man felt a gentle hand under his arm.
"What
are you doing, lady?" the man asked angrily. "I said to leave me alone.." Just
then a policeman came up... "Is there any problem, ma'am?" he asked..
"No problem here, officer," the woman answered. "I'm just trying to get this man
to his feet. Will you help me?"
The officer scratched his head. "That's old Jack.
He's
been a fixture around here for a couple of years. What do you want with him?"
"See that cafeteria over there?" she asked. "I'm going to get him something to
eat and get him out of the cold for awhile."
"Are you crazy, lady?" the homeless man resisted. "I don't want to go in there!"
Then he felt strong hands grab his other arm and lift him up.
"Let
me go, officer. I didn't do anything..."
"This is a good deal for you, Jack," the officer answered.
"Don't
blow it."
Finally, and with some difficulty, the woman and the police officer got Jack
into the cafeteria and sat him at a table in a remote corner.
It
was the middle of the morning, so most of the breakfast crowd had already left
and the lunch bunch had not yet arrived.
The manager strode across the cafeteria and stood by his table.
"What's going on here, officer?" he asked..
"What
is all this, is this man in trouble?" "This lady brought this man in here to be
fed," the policeman answered.
"Not in here!" the manager replied angrily. "Having a person like that here is
bad for business."
Old Jack smiled a toothless grin. "See, lady. I told you so. Now if you'll let
me go.. I didn't want to come here in the first place."
The woman turned to the cafeteria manager and smiled.
"Sir,
are you familiar with Eddy and Associates,
the banking firm down the street?"
"Of course I am," the manager answered impatiently. "They hold their weekly
meetings in one of my banquet rooms."
"And do you make a goodly amount of money providing food at these weekly
meetings?"
"What business is that of yours?"
"I, sir, am Penelope Eddy, president and CEO of the company."
"Oh.."
The
woman smiled again.. "I thought that might make a difference."
She glanced at the cop who was busy stifling a laugh.
"Would
you like to join us in a cup of coffee and a meal, officer?"
"No thanks, ma'am," the officer replied. "I'm on duty."
"Then, perhaps, a cup of coffee to go?"
"Yes, ma'am.. That would be very nice."
The
cafeteria manager turned on his heel.
"I'll
get your coffee for you right away, officer."
The officer watched him walk away. "You certainly put him in his place," he
said.
"That
was not my intent... Believe it or not, I have a reason for all
this."
She sat down at the table across from her amazed dinner guest. She stared at him
intently. "Jack, do you remember me?"
Old Jack searched her face with his old, rheumy eyes. "I think so -- I mean you
do look familiar."
"I'm a little older perhaps," she said.
"Maybe
I've even filled out more than in my younger days when you worked here, and I
came through that very door, cold and hungry."
"Ma'am?"
the
officer said questioningly. He couldn't believe that such a magnificently turned
out woman could ever have been
hungry.
"I was just out of college," the woman began.
"I
had come to the city looking for a job, but I couldn't find anything. Finally I
was down to my last few cents and had been kicked out of my apartment.
I
walked the streets for days. It was February and I was cold and nearly starving.
I
saw this place and walked in on the off chance that I could get something to
eat."
Jack lit up with a smile.
"Now
I remember," he said.
"I
was behind the serving counter. You came up and asked me if you could work for
something to eat.
I
said that it was against company policy.."
"I
know,"
the
woman continued. "Then you made me the biggest roast beef sandwich that I had
ever seen, gave me a cup of coffee, and told me to go over to a corner table and
enjoy it.. I was afraid that you would get into trouble.
Then,
when I looked over and saw you put the price of my food in the cash register.
I
knew then that everything would be all right."
"So you started your own business?" Old Jack said.
"I
got a job that very afternoon.
I
worked my way up.
Eventually
I started my own business that, with the help of God, prospered..."
She opened her purse and pulled out a business card. "When you are finished
here, I want you to pay a visit to a Mr. Lyons.
He's
the personnel director of my company. I'll go talk to him now and I'm certain
he'll find something for you to do around the office." She smiled.
"I
think he might even find the funds to give you a little advance so that you can
buy some clothes and get a place to live until you get on your feet. If you ever
need anything, my door is always open to you."
There were tears in the old man's eyes.
"How
can I ever thank you?" he asked.
"Don't thank me," the woman answered. "To God goes the glory....
He
led me to you."
Outside the cafeteria, the officer and the woman paused at the entrance before
going their separate ways..
"Thank you for all your help, officer," she said.
"On the contrary, Ms.. Eddy," he answered. "Thank you.
I
saw a miracle today, something that I will never forget. And...And thank you for
the coffee.."
"Have a Wonderful Day. May God Bless You Always and don't forget that when you
'cast your bread upon the waters,' you never know how it will be returned to
you."
God is so big He can cover the whole world with his Love and so small He can
curl up inside your heart.
When
God leads you to the edge of the cliff, trust Him fully and let go..
Only
1 of 2 things will happen: either He'll catch you when you fall, or He'll teach
you how to fly!
The power of one sentence:
God is
going to shift things around for you today and let things work in your favour.
If you believe, send it. If you don't believe, delete it.. God closes doors no
man can open & God opens doors no man can close..
If
you need God to open some doors for you...send this on. Have a blessed day and
remember to be a blessing...
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They're Wiser Than I Thought
As a parent, I wanted my kids to
know the difference between right and wrong. I
firmly believed the best way to do this is by
example. It does no good to tell your child not
to do something when they see you doing it.
They only think, "Daddy does it; it must be
OK."
I learned this the hard way.
My Daughter, Vanessa, was six and my son, Justin, was three. Vanessa
had picked
up a few swear words - probably from me.
I told her it was wrong, but she said, "But, Daddy, we hear you
swearing."
"You're right, Honey." I replied. "Daddy does swear, but that
doesn't make it
right. Daddy shouldn't swear either. If you
hear me swearing, you have my permission to
point it out to me and tell me it's wrong. You
can help daddy learn not to do it anymore."
This seemed to satisfy her.
At the time we lived in a mobile home. Space was limited. We were
constantly in
each other's way. One bathroom for four people
was not enough, so we decided to build an
addition. We built a large connecting room and
completely renovated the mobile. Today you
can't tell that it was once a trailer. The new
addition was 34' by 35'. We also added a second
bathroom off of our bedroom, a place just for
my wife and I. We installed all of the modern
conveniences available at the time: whirlpool
tub, shower stall, toilet, sink and even a bidet.
My wife wanted the tub, vanity and sink surrounded with Formica. She
chose a
lovely green marble pattern. The installation
price quoted by our contractor was more than
we could afford, so, like most men who like
tools and enjoy using their hands, I decided to
do it myself. I studied books and asked those
with experience what the proper method of
installation was. Soon I was a self-proclaimed
an expert.
The first step was to cut the Formica into the desired shapes and
sizes, then glue
them to the wood, and trim the edges with a
router. "Simple enough," I thought to myself.
Before starting, I covered the new flooring
with newspaper to catch any glue that might drip.
I chose our new vanity as my work area. The
sink hadn't been installed yet, but it was a
large flat area, perfect for what I needed. I
covered this area with newspaper as well,
including the hole where the sink would go. I
put the first pieces of Formica to be installed
on the vanity face down, and opened the gallon
of contact cement. Carefully, I picked up the
can, sat it on the vanity, and watched it
disappear through the newspaper and through the
hole for the sink. It crashed to floor below,
spraying glue everywhere.
I stood there trying to comprehend this strange happening. Glue ran
down my shins
and over the new slippers I received for
Christmas. I began to curse and stomp around.
With every step, my glue-soaked slippers
collected more newspaper.
My wife and kids came running. They stood in the doorway watching a
glue-
covered, cursing maniac, stomping around with a
weeks worth of newspaper sticking to his
feet. Georgia began to laugh, but the kids were
strangely quiet.
A few days later, while we were out for our evening walk, Vanessa
said, "Daddy?"
"Yes, Hun?"
"You know how you told us we should point out when you swear?"
"Yes, Vanessa. Daddy shouldn't swear. You should always tell me to
stop."
"We heard you swear the other day."
"You did? When?"
"When you spilled the glue."
"Why didn't you tell me to stop?"
She looked up at me with her innocent eyes. "Daddy, we didn't think
it was a good
time to say anything."
I learned a lesson that day. It had nothing to do with swearing. I
needed to listen to
my kids more closely. They're wiser than I
thought.
Michael T. Smith
Note: Many people have family problems like I did. Please don't hold a grudge.
Don't be the fool I was. Fix it before it's too late.
Why I call you "Friends who Wave Back"-
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Charles
Schultz Philosophy
The following is the philosophy of Charles Schultz, the creator of the 'Peanuts'
comic strip. You don't have to actually answer the questions. Just read the
email straight through, and you'll get
the
point.
1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.
2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.
3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America.
4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.
5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winners for best actor and actress.
6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series winners.
How did you do?
The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday. These are no
second-rate achievers. They are the best in their fields. But the applause dies.
Awards tarnish. Achievements are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are
buried with their owners .
Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:
1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.
2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.
3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.
4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special.
5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with .
Easier?
The lesson:
The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most
credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the ones that care.
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He's My Brother
Like the Christmas before, we didn't send Christmas cards; we called
my family
in Canada. Ginny and I talked to my mom. We spoke to my uncles and aunts. I
haven't
seen any of them in seven years and Ginny hasn't met them yet at all, but she
knows they
are family and hopes to meet them one day.
The calls were completed, but I couldn't relax. There was one call I
needed to
make, I was afraid to. I paced the house. I sat at my computer and wasted time.
I needed
to call. I couldn't. I should. I couldn't. I was in turmoil.
Five years before, I received an email from my brother. At the time,
I had been
out of work for several months. Stress ruled my life. The email from my brother
was
nothing terrible, but it made me angry.
I wrote back. As I typed, my anger grew. Months of frustration
flowed into my
nasty response. I said things that were not nice, but I hit send anyway. More
thoughts
occurred to me. I wrote a second nasty email. My fingers hammered the keys as I
typed.
I basically told my brother to go to hell. I could care less if I ever heard
from him again.
The next day I received an email from him. I didn't read it. I just
deleted it and
then blocked his email address, so I could not receive anything from him.
In the last five years, I know he has tried to get through to me,
but I ignored him.
I have lived with this terrible guilt. I thought about contacting
him, but was
ashamed of myself for what I'd said.
Now was the time.
I picked up the phone and stepped outside. I wanted privacy. Ginny
didn't know I
was calling my brother. I took a deep breath, blew out a cloud of steam into the
cold
December air, and dialed his number. Even after five years, I still knew it by
heart. A
phone rang 3700 miles away in Nova Scotia.
There was no answer. I left a message. "Bob, it's Mike." I paused to
take another
breath. My hand holding the phone shook. "Bob, I guess I'll start by saying I'm
sorry.
I said some things I regret. I want to wish you and Delores (Bob's wife) a merry
Christmas and hope all is well with you. I realize you may not want to talk to
me, but I
thought I would try. I want to make it right again. If you want to talk ..." I
left my
number.
I walked back into the house and looked at Ginny. "I did it."
She looked puzzled. "You did what?"
"I called Bob."
"Oh, Honey!" She walked to me and put her arms around my neck. "I'm
glad.
You needed to do it. It's family, Mike, and it's been too long." She kissed me.
"You did
right, Hun."
The days passed. Christmas came and went. I waited for the call that
never came.
I prayed for his forgiveness. The phone didn't ring. Then a week after I called,
I received
an email. My brother left me a message on my Facebook page. He said he listened
to my
voice message over-and-over and knew I was sincere. In the weeks to follow, we
emailed
back-and-forth. The healing has begin.
Why did I let five years of my brother's life slip through my
fingers? Why was I
too proud to call and say I was sorry?
If I had the answers, it would never have happened in the first
place, but I know
I don't want it to happen again.
I wrecked my relationship with my brother. Like a jigsaw puzzle that
has been
dropped, the pieces are scattered everywhere. It's time to gather them up and
try to put
it back together. It will take time, but I hope each piece I put back will gain
a little more
of my brother's trust.
I swallowed my pride. I did it. Five years is too long.
He's my brother.
Michael T. Smith
Note: Many people have family problems like I did. Please don't hold a grudge.
Don't be the fool I was. Fix it before it's too late.
Why I call you "Friends who Wave Back"-
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I don't think our kids know what an apron is.
The principal use of Grandma's apron was to protect the dress underneath, because she only had a few, it was easier to wash aprons than dresses and they used less material, but along with that, it served as a potholder for removing hot pans from the oven.
It was wonderful for drying children's tears, and on occasion was even used for cleaning out dirty ears…
From the chicken coop, the apron was used for carrying eggs, fussy chicks, and sometimes half-hatched eggs to be finished in the warming oven.
When company came, those aprons were ideal hiding places for shy kids.
And when the weather was cold grandma wrapped it around her arms.
Those big old aprons wiped many a perspiring brow, bent over the hot wood stove.
Chips and kindling wood were brought into the kitchen in that apron.
From the garden, it carried all sorts of vegetables.
After the peas had been shelled, it carried out the hulls.
In the fall, the apron was used to bring in apples that had fallen from the trees.
When unexpected company drove up the road, it was surprising how much furniture that old apron could dust in a matter of seconds.
When dinner was ready, Grandma walked out onto the porch, waved her apron, and the men-folk knew it was time to come in from the fields to dinner.
It will be a long time before someone invents something that will replace that 'old-time apron' that served so many purposes.
REMEMBER:
Grandma used to set her hot baked apple pies on the window sill to cool.
Her granddaughters set theirs on the window sill to thaw.
They would go crazy now trying to figure out how many germs were on that apron.
I never caught anything from an apron…But Love. (Author Unknown)
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I Want to be a Mountain
The year drew to a close. What would I accomplish in next?
I looked up at the mountains in the distance. They were white now.
Not long ago,
they were brown. In the eighteen months I've lived in Idaho, I've had the
opportunity
watch the cycle of seasons make their changes on these mountains that I never
tire of
seeing.
My first sight of them came in September of 2008. The sides of the
mountains
were painted green with the leaves of sage brush. The days moved on. The weather
cooled and the rain didn't fall. The leaves browned. The mountain changed.
Fall gave way to winter. I stood in the rain and watched the top of
the
mountains turn a dazzling white. Each week the snow crept further down the
slopes
and long before the first snows fell in the valley, the mountains were covered
with fresh
powder. When the sun set, the lights on the ski slopes lit the side of the
mountains a
dazzling white at night. I'm not a skier, but I imagined the excitement of
speeding down
the side of those mountains - free, fast, and thrilled.
Winter turned to spring. The snow in the valley disappeared and made
its
retreat up the slopes until it was gone once again. As the weeks passed, the
green in
the valley flowed steadily up the slopes like a reversed waterfall. The
mountains
were as I first saw them, green and lush.
On this New Years Eve, the mountains are white again. On New Years
Day
they will be peppered with the dark dots of the distance skiers as they daringly
fall down it's slopes.
I saw so many changes, but were they changes? The mountains are
never
changing. Like people, they only changed coats to fit the weather. They didn't
allow outside influences to alter what lie beneath their coats of changing
colors.
They were always the same. You could have faith in them.
I'm in my third season of life. A little snow is gathering at my
peak. Some of the
sage brush is gone all together. My clothing changed to fit my season. Next year
and all
my years to follow, I want to be as constant as a mountain. Although my looks
change,
I want to be reliable. My body will change coats many times, but when my day is
done, I want people to say, "No matter what the seasons of life brought, he
never changed
inside. He never allowed the pressures of the seasons or the weathers of life to
change
what he was underneath. He was a mountain you could rely on to watch over those
who looked up to him."
For this New Year and all the New Years that I have left, whether it
is at my job,
at home, or with friends, I want to be a mountain.
Why I call you "Friends who Wave Back"-
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My
Twelve Most Memorable Moments with You
MERRY CHRISTMAS, GINNY
This year I bring you the twelve most memorable moments. These are moments with
you
that that stand out in my mind whenever I think about our almost six years
together.
1 - The time we first talked on the phone
We were in the chat room for widows and widowers. The group met in the chat room
often. Your sense of humor was wonderful. I liked you. I was the clown of the
group
and cracked jokes all the time. Little did I know you baited me to see what I
could say
next.
I asked if I could call you sometime.
You said yes.
I heard your southern accent and feel in love with it.
The clue to the next moment is:
Your next moment is - It should always come first - Their first
(The note was hidden behind a picture on the wall. It has Ginny's daughter,
son-in-law
and pictures of their children in it. The clue was "It should always come first"
meaning
family. Below the pictures is a line that says, "Our first Year")
2 - The day we first met at the airport
My stomach was in turmoil. I was excited and scared at the same time.
I'd seen your pictures and recognized you right away. You looked up at me,
"Michael?"
"Yes?"
And then you were in my arms. I held you tight.
Later you told me you had a dream of your first husband Harvey soon after he
died. He
came to you in a meadow, hugged you, and said everything was going to be OK. It
was
not a hug you remembered. The hug was the one I gave you at the airport that
first time.
Your next moment is - Our feathered friends love us.
(The note was hidden behind a picture of birdhouse.)
3 - Our first kiss in the car
We gathered your luggage and walked to my car. Once inside, I turned to you and
said,
"I have been waiting to do this for a long time." I reached out, held you to me,
and kissed
the sweetest lips I've ever tasted.
Read: First Meet:
First meet
Your next moment is - I flash to mark the spot
(The note was hidden beneath the flashing angel at the top of the Christmas
Tree)
4 - The first time I met your daughter Heather and your grandsons
We flew to Oklahoma to bring Heather to New Jersey with us. In the terminal I
met
Heather and her three boys for the first time. Little did I know the role those
little
guys would play in my life.
Related stories:
Hoo Hoo Fraks
Just Three Words
The Color of Yogurt
Your next moment is - He shares tea with his wife
(The note was hidden behind an advent calendar. On the calendar is a picture of
Mr. and
Mrs. Clause sharing tea)
5 - I took you to Times Square
On your first visit, I took you to Jersey City to see Manhattan across the
Hudson River.
We took the train into Manhattan, and I walked you to Times Square. The wonder
and
thrill on your face reflected the thousands of lights that surrounded us.
Your next moment is - She wants to be at my feet
(The next note was hidden in our cat's basket)
6 - The moment I realized my love for you was real and deep was when you hurt
your
thumb.
My phone rang. It was your son Brandon. I'd never spoken too him before.
"Mike, this is Brandon, Ginny's son. She asked me to call you. She had an
accident with
her horse. She almost ripped her thumb off and is in surgery now."
He said he would call me with more news later, but didn't.
That night, I paced the house and called your phone over-and-over, without
receiving
an answer. I was sick with worry. As my worry grew, so did a realization - I was
truly in love with you. I knew I loved you before, but my concern and worry
drove the
point home to me. It was a wonderful moment.
Your next moment is - Now I lay me down to sleep
(The next note was hidden under her pillow)
7 - The day we married
No day can compare to the day you looked into my eyes and said, "I do!"
It was the day my life changed for the better. Thank you, Baby!
You can see our wedding here:
Our Wedding
Your next moment is - BRRRRRRRR
(This note was hidden in the freezer)
8 - The YW gathering
More than twenty widows and widowers from our online support group from
three countries gathered in New York City. I remember looking around the room
at all the people we shared our pains and sorrows with and feeling the tears
streaming down my cheeks. It was the most amazing thing I have ever experienced.
Amid the crowd was the woman I loved and married - you.
Your next moment is - Ice is nice
(This next note was hidden behind a calendar. It had a winter scene of ice on
the shores
of the ocean)
9 - When you met my daughter Vanessa
When I told my daughter Vanessa you and I got married, she freaked. "Dad, are
you crazy? It's too soon! You'll just end up divorced!"
A few months later we drove to Ohio and you met her for the first time. I was
told
she was scared to death to meet you.
Within a few hours, you and Vanessa were laughing and enjoying each other's
company.
It's been five years and she calls you more than she does me. She confides
everything in
you. You have become the mother she lost, and I thank you.
Your next moment is - I see me. You see you.
(I hid this one behind a mirror in the living room)
10 - Standing at the base of Katterskill falls
We climbed that hill and stood at the base of the falls. You were sick, but
managed to
make the hike. I stood, looked up at the water tumbling from the edge of the
cliff and
thought, that has to be the most beautiful thing I have ever laid my eyes on.
Then I looked
at you and thought, "No! It's the second most beautiful thing."
The Falls
Your next moment is - I'm getting really slow
(Ginny's coffee maker is getting old. Each morning it takes longer for the
coffee to
fill the pot. The note was hidden under it.)
11 - The first time we slept together
We slipped under the covers. Afterward, we clung to each other and slept. We
woke in
the morning still wrapped in each others arms. We hadn't moved all night -
comfortable
in each others love.
Your next moment is - I turned red and then I shed
(The note was hidden under the Christmas cactus. It bloomed a few weeks ago and
recently shed it's flowers.)
12 - The first time I met your son Brandon
How can I not mention this one? The first night at his house, he pulled a prank
on you for
April Fool's Day.
I fell for it instead. I thought I was going to die in a gun battle that night.
Merry Christmas, Ginny. Thank you for being the wonderful woman you are and for
becoming my wife - One of the best things to ever happen to me
Read "The Best Move":
The Best Move
Michael T. Smith
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It was Just a Simple
Cookie
It was Christmas Eve. She sat alone in her tiny apartment. It wasn't
much, but she
was sheltered and warm. It was small but all she needed. Each morning she rose
and fed
what she playfully called her "livestock" - a parakeet named Skylar and her
small fish.
She thought Skylar was a fitting name for her bird. It meant eternal life,
strength, love
and beauty.
She'd spend Christmas alone again this year. Her two daughters lived
miles away
and would not be able to visit until after Christmas. She was fine with that.
After three
abusive marriages, being alone was a treat. As with most people, Christmas was a
time
for reflection.
She sat and stared at her Christmas tree. A memory shined like a
star. Her cousin
was dying from cancer and stayed with her family that Christmas so long ago.
They
wanted her to have the best Christmas ever. Even though she was weak, her cousin
made cookies. They were hand painted with the best care her weakening fingers
could
manage. The cookies were not eaten. They were hung on the tree as a tribute to a
life
that would soon be lost.
A year later, her cousin was gone. They made cookies in her memory.
Each
child had to share the icing. She was the last. Her cookie was a patchwork of
the leftover
icing, but still she was proud.
The cookies hung on the tree. She and the other children wanted to
eat them, but
they were meant to be ornaments and a remembrance.
This year, she thought of those cookies. A craving came over her.
This Christmas
she wanted a cookie. It wasn't much to ask for. All she wanted was a simple
frosted
sugar cookie.
She didn't bake much herself. She never had the knack for it.
Her thoughts followed her life journey. The first mother-in-law
handed out store-
bought cookies. It was a good thing, because that woman couldn't bake.
The second mother-in-law gave large bags of sugar-coated cookies.
She was
excited, until she bit into the first one. They were paper thin and tasted
horrible.
She made them with bacon grease instead of lard - something they did when times
were tough.
The third mother-in-law made great cookies.
She sat in her chair, stared at the tree, listened to her parakeet,
and drooled for
a frosted sugar cookie. "Lord, I don't need much, but right now, I would love a
frosted sugar cookie. I could sit in front of my electric fireplace, sip a cup
of tea, and
remember a wonderful moment in my life. It's not too much to ask on this special
occasion.
"You need to answer so many prayers. Most need more than I do, but a
cookie
would be great on the birthday of your son. It's all I ask."
The year before, she saw a cookie in the store. It was expensive,
but she thought
it would be worth it - just a frosted Christmas tree, not too much to ask for.
She took it
home and prepared her tea. A cookie and tea were great together, but the cookie
was hard
as rock and inedible. She was disappointed.
On this Christmas Eve, she opened the door of her small apartment
and found a
clear plastic bag tied with a shiny ribbon attached to her door. It was a wink
from God.
Inside were three cookies. Each door of the complex had the same. Included with
the bag
was a business card from a new neighbor. "Merry Christmas!"
They were Christmas cookies. One was frosted, the answer to her
prayers. The
second was a candy cane covered in colored sugar. The third was a
sugared-covered
Christmas tree with sprinkles. They were a simple gift from her new neighbor,
but her
heart swelled with joy.
On Christmas Eve, as the light in the sky dimmed, she sat in her
chair,
stared at the fire, sipped her tea, ate her cookie, and thought, "Yes! There is
a God in
Heaven, and he answers even the smallest prayers."
It was just a simple cookie.
Michael T. Smith
Why I call you "Friends who Wave Back"-
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Santa lives at the North Pole.
JESUS is everywhere.
Santa rides in a sleigh
JESUS rides on the wind and walks on the water.
Santa comes but once a year
JESUS is an ever present help.
Santa fills your stockings with goodies
JESUS supplies all your needs.
Santa comes down your chimney uninvited
JESUS stands at your door and knocks.. And then enters your heart.
You have to stand in line to see Santa
JESUS is as close as the mention of His name.
Santa lets you sit on his lap
JESUS lets you rest in His arms.
Santa doesn't know your name, all he can say is "Hi little boy or girl, What's your name?"
JESUS knew our name before we did. Not only does He know our name, He knows our address too. He knows our history and future and He even knows how many hairs are on our heads.
Santa has a belly like a bowl full of jelly
JESUS has a heart full of love.
All Santa can offer is HO HO HO
JESUS offers health, help and hope.
Santa says "You better not cry"
JESUS says "Cast all your cares on me for I care for you.
Santa's little helpers make toys
JESUS makes new life, mends wounded hearts, repairs broken homes and builds mansions.
Santa may make you chuckle but
JESUS gives you joy that is your strength.
While Santa puts gifts under your tree
JESUS became our gift and died on the tree.
It's obvious there is really no comparison.
We need to remember WHO Christmas is all about.
We need to put Christ back in Christmas.
Jesus is still the reason for the season.
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By Rick Ryan
Under Santa's hat,
there is a curious little crop
His bottom may be fat, but he's been getting thin on top
The fuzz above his forehead's like a field that's underfed
It won't be long until there's not one hair on Santa's head
He knows how cold each winter gets, how every sneeze can freeze
So he searches on the internet for "bald head remedies"
Each remedy's a food or drink, some wacky, wild and weird
Soon he begins to rub them where his hair has disappeared
Santa's never one
to worry, so he sets a faster pace
In a hurry he makes curry and he plasters it in place
Now his goal is getting clearer, he's much nearer with each try
But one look into the mirror shows a turban two feet high!
Next, he rustles up some barbeque and spreads it with a smile
He thinks, "This'll do the trick, I'm gonna grow hair Texas-style!"
He's sure he's found a cure from all those remedies he's read
Till he sees a giant Stetson ridin' high up on his head
As he smashes up and pours on a puree' of squash and peas
Santa hangs out and prepares to shout "hooray!" at what he sees
When he gives his head a tough-guy stare and dares his hair to grow
The cutest baby bonnet's there, all tied up with a bow
Well, this gent they call Saint Nicholas is quite a sight to see
His results have been ree-dickle-us with each new recipe
In time, his tale will tickle us-- he doesn't have a doubt
But today he's got to find a way to get some hair to sprout
He can't resist those remedies, but the list goes on and on
So, he certifies this date "The Great Hair-Growing Marathon"
He gives it all he's got while mixin' fixins one by one
Whether he grows hair or not, it seems like Santa's having fun
He cooks up his cuisine, he's got a hungry head to feed
He looks like a machine with every move at lightning speed
For show, he throws on flour and dough, he's like an acrobat
But instead of hair, what sits up there's a great, big baker's hat
Then he squishes
up and dishes up a hot dog on a bun
But an oldtime baseball cap appears the minute that he's done
He thinks that rum might grow some hair, so he rubs on more and more
Then a pirate hat is sitting there, like Long John Silver wore
When Santa serves up Irish stew and sprinkles shamrocks on
There's a green hat with a buckle, he's a lucky leprechaun
Then he tosses on some mystery sauce, across his head it roams
When a cool detective's hat appears, he looks like Sherlock Holmes
After mashing up a cup of maize to help his hairless cause
He wears an Indian headdress and becomes Chief Santa Claus
Then all those crazy cures start tickling Santa's funny bone
He thinks about a hundred other hats that he might own!
There's Merlin the Magician's from those great King Arthur books
Those floppy hats for fishin', crammed with tackle, bait and hooks
Those Viking hats from days of yore with horns designed to shock
Those funny hats the Pilgrims wore when they hit Plymouth Rock
Next, a quirky fez from Turkey with its tassle dangling down
From an ancient English castle he could have a kingly crown
Now, his bald head doesn't bother him at all, imagine that
Up there, instead of hair, he'd rather wear another hat!
So many hats--a helmet, a fedora or a tam
He's balder than an eagle, but he's happy as a clam
In just awhile, he'll have a pile of styles he's never seen
He's turned his hairless head into a hat-making machine
So, Santa's head keeps working till the sun begins to rise
He knew it had some skill, but still he can't believe his eyes
His hat-making machine went wild, there's not one space to spare
A thousand different hats are piled in places everywhere
Santa finally finds a way that his bald head has passed the test
It worked so hard and fast, now it deserves a little rest
He wanted something up there, but much more than hair has grown
The biggest hat collection that this world has even known!
*****************
Christmas is for love. It is for joy, for giving and sharing, for laughter, for reuniting with family and friends, for tinsel and brightly decorated packages. But mostly, Christmas is for love. I had not believed this until a small elf-like student with wide-eyed innocent eyes and soft rosy cheeks gave me a wondrous gift one Christmas.
Mark was an 11 year old orphan who lived with his aunt, a bitter middle aged woman greatly annoyed with the burden of caring for her dead sister's son. She never failed to remind young Mark, if it hadn't been for her generosity, he would be a vagrant, homeless waif. Still, with all the scolding and chilliness at home, he was a sweet and gentle child.
I had not noticed Mark particularly until he began staying after class each day (at the risk of arousing his aunt's anger, I later found) to help me straighten up the room. We did this quietly and comfortably, not speaking much, but enjoying the solitude of that hour of the day. When we did talk, Mark spoke mostly of his mother. Though he was quite small when she died, he remembered a kind, gentle, loving woman, who always spent much time with him.
As Christmas drew near however, Mark failed to stay after school each day. I looked forward to his coming, and when the days passed and he continued to scamper hurriedly from the room after class, I stopped him one afternoon and asked why he no longer helped me in the room. I told him how I had missed him, and his large grey eyes lit up eagerly as he replied, 'Did you really miss me?'
I explained how he had been my best helper. 'I was making you a surprise,' he whispered confidentially.
'It's for Christmas.' With that, he became embarrassed and dashed from the room. He didn't stay after school any more after that.
Finally came the last school day before Christmas. Mark crept slowly into the room late that afternoon with his hands concealing something behind his back. 'I have your present,' he said timidly when I looked up. 'I hope you like it.' He held out his hands, and there lying in his small palms was a tiny wooden box.
'Its beautiful, Mark. Is there something in it?' I asked opening the top to look inside.
'Oh you can't see what's in it,' he replied, 'and you can't touch it, or taste it or feel it, but mother always said it makes you feel good all the time, warm on cold nights, and safe when you're all alone.'
I gazed into the empty box. 'What is it Mark,' I asked gently, 'that will make me feel so good?
'Its love,' he whispered softly, 'and mother always said its best when you give it away.' And he turned and quietly left the room.
So now I keep a small box crudely made of scraps of wood on the piano in my living room and only smile as enquiring friends raise quizzical eyebrows when I explain to them that there is love in it.
Yes, Christmas is for gaiety, mirth and song, for good and wondrous gifts. But mostly, Christmas is for love.
Author Unknown
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There is a Santa; He Married Her
One of the duties of her job was to go to the post office every
day and pick up the
company mail. As November rolled into December, she noticed a Salvation Army
Santa
standing on the corner. Each day she saved her coins and dropped them in his
bucket.
He'd smile, wish her a Merry Christmas, and continue to ring his bell.
The second week of December came with a cold front. At night the
temperature
dropped below zero Fahrenheit and the daytime temperatures barely made it to
fourteen.
Santa stood in the frigid winds and continued to ring his bell.
"You must be freezing." She said to him, as she dropped her coins in
his bucket.
"I'm so cold!" He shivered. "I can't feel the bell in my hands. And
my feet? I
don't know if they're there anymore."
The next day, she dropped her coins in the bucket and handed him
several
chemical hand and foot warmers. "Try these." She smiled at Santa. "We had them
in
our car in case of and emergency. I think a Santa freezing is an emergency.
Don't you?"
Santa took her offering. "God bless you, Ma'am. I cannot thank you
enough."
A week later, a new Santa stood ringing the bell. "What happened to
the other
Santa?" She asked.
"He paused his ringing to inform her, "I'm sorry to say, he's very
sick today."
She dropped her coins in the bucket and walked away with a heavy
heart. Her
hand and foot warmers were not enough to prevent Santa from getting sick. She
prayed
for his health.
Later that day, a co-worker came into her office in tears. "I don't
know what
I'm going to do."
"What's wrong?" she asked.
"It's my ex-husband." Her co-worker wiped a tear from her eye and
continued. "I
don't have any money to buy my boys anything for Christmas. I called my
ex-husband
last night and asked if he was sending money for them. He told me that these
were tough
times. The boys will have suck it up. I'm not sending money. They'll get over
it." She
began to cry harder. "I don't know what to do. They're teenagers and will
understand, but
it breaks my heart that they won't have anything this year."
The lady hugged her co-worker. "I'm sure everything will work out.
It's
Christmas. Believe in miracles."
That evening, she sat with her husband and told him about her
co-worker's
situation. "Hun, I know we don't have much to help, but I'd like to get her a
gift card
from Walmart or something. Maybe fifty or a hundred dollars. We'll just get
ourselves
less this year. Last year we couldn't afford to buy anything for ourselves and
still had a
wonderful Christmas. It's the giving that counts."
She paused and looked at her husband. "I feel bad for those boys,"
she continued.
"I want to send it to her anonymously. She'll never know where it came from. It
will
make her so happy."
Her husband saw the look in her eyes, and knew she wanted his
blessing, but
also that she was going to do it anyway. "Hun?"
"Yes?"
He smiled. "Give her the hundred. She needs it more than we do."
She reached up and held him. Warmth spread through his body. A glow
like
none other. He held her and realized there really is a Santa Clause; he'd
married her.
Michael T. Smith
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It doesn't interest me what you do for a
living.
I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your
heart's longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn't interest me what planets are
squaring your moon.
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow, if you have
been opened by life's betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear
of further pain!
I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true.
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty everyday, and if you can source your life on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon.
It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.
I want to know if you can get up after a night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done for the children.
It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.
It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
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There is a special place in life,that needs my
humble skill.
A certain job I'm meant to do,which no one else can fulfil.
The time will be demanding and the pay is not too
good.
And yet I wouldn't change it for a moment - even if I could.
There is a special place in life, a goal I must
attain.
A dream that I must follow, because I won't be back again.
There is a mark that I must leave, however small
it seems to be.
A legacy of love for those who follow after me.
There is a special place in life, that only I may
share.
A little path that bears my name, awaiting me somewhere.
There is a hand that I must hold, a word that I
must say.
A smile that I must give for there are tears to blow away.
There is a special place in life that I was meant
to fill.
A sunny spot where flowers grow, upon a windy hill.
There's always a tomorrow and the best is yet to
be.
And somewhere in this world, I know there is a place for me.
Author Unknown
*********************
Georgia slipped the band of gold around my finger, looked into my
eyes and
completed her vows. We were husband and wife.
A week later, I sat in my chair, mindlessly watching television. I
twirled the
unfamiliar band of gold circling my ring finger. It was the first piece of
jewelry I'd ever
worn. It made me feel different.
My life changed. I no longer thought of "me". I thought of "us". I
had a wife. The
band of gold proved it. From that day forward, people saw it and knew I was
committed
to another.
It band became a part of me. Whenever I sat idle, my right hand
would reach to
play with it. Other times, my left thumb would polish it - savoring the symbol
of love.
******************
"Michael?" Georgia asked?
I looked across our dining room table at her. Her brown eyes sparkled. "What,
Hun?"
"I'm pregnant." She smiled.
"You are? Are you sure?" I rose from my chair. "Do you feel OK? Do you need
anything?" I had an expectant mother to take care of.
The doctor confirmed it today. And yes, I am OK. Now sit and finish your
dinner."
"But?" I stammered. "This calls for a toast. I'll get that bottle of champagne."
I rushed from the table.
"Michael!" She reached for my hand and rested her other hand on her
stomach.
"I can't. The baby! Remember?"
I stared at her and frowned. "Why ..." I paused. "Oh right! The
baby! I forgot. No
drinking."
"Relax. I'm OK. Sit and finish your dinner."
We sat and ate. Afterward, I reached across the table and held her
left hand in
mine. I looked into those sparkling brown eyes. "Thank you, Hun. Thank you for
wanting
to be the mother of our children." I looked down at the table where I still held
her hand.
The flickering candle reflected off our bands of gold. "I love you, future
Mama." I lifted
her hand and kissed her ring.
******************
"It hurts so bad!" Georgia screamed.
"Pant!" I screamed back. "Pant! Puff, puff, puff, pufffff!"
"Stop blowing in my face!" She yelled at me.
Another contraction ripped through her body. "Mrs. Smith!" the
doctor said. "I
need one more big push."
"You can do it, Hun!" I held her hand, or rather; she gripped mine
in a vice.
I saw our hands. My fingers were white from the lack of circulation. The lights
above the
table reflected off our rings.
******************
"Look at her eyes, Michael! She's so alert." Georgia was in the
recovery room.
She cradled our little Vanessa in her left arm.
I stroked Georgia's hair. My ring twinkled as her hair polished it.
"She's
beautiful, Hun. Thank you."
She looked up at me. "That wasn't so bad. I could do it again?"
Tears streamed down my cheeks. "Honey, you mean you would go through
this
again? You had so much pain!"
"I want our dream of a girl and a boy." Her hand rested on the
blankets warming
our new daughter - the gold of her band accented by the white cloth.
******************
"Mr. Smith, meet your new son." The nurse smiled and placed him in
my arms.
"Hi, Justin!" He cried and waved his tiny arms in response. I placed
our new son
in Georgia's arms. "Thank you! Thank you so much!" I bent and kissed her. My
left
hand stroked her cheek. The gold band sparkled with her perspiration. "I love
you."
******************
We sat across the table from each other. A candle burned between us.
Hushed
voices from other tables filtered through my thoughts.
I looked into those brown eyes, as I so often did. "Happy
anniversary, Georgia."
"Happy anniversary, Michael."
"Ten years! Can you believe it?"
"I hope the kids are OK."
"Hun, they're fine. This is our night." I reached for her hand and
held it in mine.
Like the bands in a tree trunk, our skin had begun to show the wrinkles of life.
The fire of
the candle reflected off our rings, reminding me of a night long ago, when she
smiled and
said, "I'm pregnant."
******************
I sat on our sofa playing with my ring. I remembered forgetting to
put it on
after Georgia cleaned it one day. At work, I kept reaching for it with my thumb.
I felt
empty without it.
I looked at Georgia's picture on the TV stand. I was alone. Our
children were in
their rooms, grieving in their own way. Georgia's urn rested on the credenza in
the dining
room. We'd brought her home from the service that afternoon. Her ring rested in
my left
palm. I had a decision to make. "When do I take mine off?" I asked no one.
I was afraid. If I took it off, would it mean the love we shared was
gone? The
band of gold stayed on my finger. When my thumb touched it, my thoughts drifted
to
past times and not to the future and the life we planned. "When do I take it
off?" I asked
myself again. It was with me from the day we'd married more than nineteen years
earlier. It'd been on my finger when I changed my children's diapers. When we
took
drives, my hand held the steering wheel. The ring reflected the sunshine. It
circled my
finger when we made love. The day she took her last breath, I held her hand and
the ring
reflected the machines that had kept her alive.
I reached behind my neck and undid the clasp of the gold chain.
She'd given it
to me on our first Christmas together. I threaded her ring onto it and started
to put it
back around my neck. I paused and put it down. The fingers of my right hand
reached for
my ring a final time. I twirled it around like old times and then slipped it
off. I held it to
the light. It was scratched and dented from the rigors of living. It joined
Georgia's ring on
the chain.
My hand felt empty without its comforting weight, but the combined
rings
hanging around my neck soothed me - a reminder of our years together.
******************
Almost a year later, I stood with Ginny in a New York City court
house. She took
my hand and placed a new band of gold around my finger. The Justice of the Peace
smiled. "I pronounce you man and wife. Michael, you may now kiss the bride."
Ginny
slipped into my arms. Our lips met. I hugged her to me. On her shoulder, I saw
my hand
and the ring on my finger - a band of love.
******************
Ginny and I sat on our deck reading. I held my book in my right
hand.
My left hand rested on my lap. A sparkle caused me to blink. I looked down.
The new band reflected the sun. Ginny looked up at me, "I love you."
"Love you more."
"Love you too."
We played our game.
She turned back to her book. I stared at my ring again. It meant
more than
marriage. Like life, it had a beginning and an end. I started one journey with
Georgia.
"Until death do we part." We repeated - a beginning and an end. We followed the
band
of gold to her end.
"Gin?"
She looked up from her book. "Yes?"
"I need to do something."
She looked puzzled. "What?" I reached up, unclipped my chain, and
removed the
two rings. "Michael, what are you doing?"
"It's time to let go, Gin."
"But they mean so much to you."
"Yes they do, but it is time to move forward. It's like starting a
new year. I need
to let go of the old and enjoy the new."
She stood, walked over, sat in my lap, and wrapped her arms around me. "I
understand."
I held up my left hand. "Look!"
She stared at my hand. "What?"
"See how the sun reflects off it? I've been blessed to have you in
my life. I have a
new band of love, a new life, a new beginning, a new year and you. It's time to
move
forward with you."
Michael T. Smith
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In the USA it is known as Veteran's Day. In Canada it is known as
Remembrance
Day and is a government holiday. The number 11 took on a new meaning after 9/11,
but
it signified freedom long before that.
I had no idea what it meant. To me it was just another holiday. A
day when stores
were closed and more importantly, there was no school. I knew about the war, but
I was
free to play. I knew people died for our freedom, but I could sleep in. I knew
my parents
had little when they were growing up because of the war, but I had food on my
plate and
a day to watch TV. The real meaning of the day was distant to me.
Years later, my daughter joined the Brownies. The first year she was
a member, I
set the alarm to wake us on the morning of 11/11. She had to participate in a
parade.
Every Brownie, Girl Guide, Cub Scout, and Scout had to participate in the
parade. It
was a day to remember those who died for our freedom.
My wife and I left our daughter with the Guide leader and proceeded
to the
Canadian Legion, where we waited for her. The kids paraded a mile along the
coastal
roads of Nova Scotia, carrying their flags high and proud. We waited for their
arrival.
Veterans joined them - old men, long past the prime. They'd fought in the
trenches and
watched their comrades die. Many came in wheelchairs. Some limped. A few still
stood
strong and walked proudly to the legion. A band played, speeches were made, and
on the
11th month, the 11th day, the 11th hour, the 11th minute, and the 11th second
there
began two minutes of silence.
I looked at the veterans. Their sacrifices allowed us to stand there
that day. They
gave us our freedom. The cold seeped through my jacket. I reached out and held
my wife.
A tear trickled down my cheek. For years, I slept as those brave men marched in
the cold
November air in remembrance for those who died in battle beside them. It took my
daughter to make me realize the importance of the day.
I never missed another Remembrance Day.
Years later, because of work, I was separated from my family. I was
in another
city. On Remembrance Day, I heard there was going to be a service in the city
square.
I was in Saint John, New Brunswick. I put on my jacket and tie, pinned a poppy
to my lapel, walked the mile to the service, stood in the damp cold and watched
those brave
men once again march for our freedom.
I don't know if it was because I was away from my family or the
sight of those old
men still walking proudly, but the memory of that service never fades.
The Veterans marched, wheeled, and limped to the city square. The
mayor gave a
speech. The two minutes of silence began. At the end, a bagpipe began to play
"Amazing
Grace."
After the first chorus, a second bagpipe joined in, along with a
small band. On the
third chorus, more bagpipes joined and a brass band began to play. The building
of
sound, the magic of the moment is something I will never forget. The tears
filled my eyes
that day, as the blood must have filled the trenches in battle.
That moment burned in my mind forever.
On November 11th, please take a moment to remember those who fought
for our
freedom and those that continue to fight for it.
May God bless all of them.
Michael T. Smith
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It was November 1999 and almost seven in the evening. The end of a
long day
at work was near. The stress of my new job and the move to a new country wore me
out.
I rearranged the papers on my desk, yawned, and prepared to go home to the new
townhouse my friend and I found for my family. I couldn't wait to see the
surprise on my
wife, Georgia's, face, when she arrived from Canada the following week with our
son
and daughter.
My phone rang. I looked at the number, saw it was Georgia, and
smiled. She was
going to be so happy. "Hi, Hun!"
"Michael?" The tone of her voice gave me a hint that something
wasn't right.
"You're still at work?"
"Yeah! That's the way it is here."
"Michael, I have to tell you something."
Again, I caught the tone of her voice. Something was wrong. "What is
it?"
"It's Terry."
Terry was her sister. I felt a knot form in my stomach. "What about
her?"
"She's dead."
The knot in my stomach dropped lower. "She's what?"
"She's dead." I couldn't see Georgia's tears, but I heard them in
her voice.
"What do you mean she's dead?" The knot grew.
"She was murdered," she said.
The knot was now a lump of lead. It weighted me in my chair.
"Murdered?" I
couldn't grasp what Georgia told me. "You mean someone killed her?" It was a
dumb
question, but I was numb with shock. "How?"
"Michael, they found her ..." She paused to gain control. "They
found her in her
apartment. She didn't show up for work for a couple days. They called the
landlord. He
was the one to find her."
"When did you find out?"
"Just a few minutes ago. We were in the middle of packing for the
move and the
Laval police called."
"Oh, Lord! I'm so sorry, Hun. Do you want me to fly home?"
"No! I just want to get through this move and be there with you.
They told me
her body wouldn't be released for some time. They need to do a lot to look for
evidence.
We're her only family in Canada. They said a funeral could wait."
"Georgia, are you sure that is what you want to do?"
"That's all I can do right now."
"What do the police say?"
"They don't know anything yet. They think someone got into her
apartment? I
have to go. The kids are calling for me."
"Are they OK?"
"Their both very upset. They loved Terry. They can't grasp what
happened. For
that matter, neither can I."
We hung up. I slumped back in my chair and tried to grasp what I
just heard.
The office was empty. Hundreds of empty cubicles surrounded me. The beat of my
heart
seemed to echo off them.
That night, I lay on my air mattress in our new bedroom and flinched
at the
smallest noise. Every creak and groan made me think someone was in the house
with me.
Several times I woke and searched every room and closet of the barren house. I
couldn't
wait for Georgia, our kids, and our furniture to arrive. I never felt so alone
in my life.
Police learned a man, posing as a maintenance worker, knocked on
doors of
Terry's complex that day. One lady answered her door. The man said he was
checking
on a water leak and needed to check her apartment. She told him to wait while
she called
the office. When she returned, he was gone. A second woman said she would get
her
husband. Like the first, he was gone when they returned.
The man knocked on Terry's door. She once worked for an apartment
management company. She knew the damage water could cause. The man found a
weak spot. Terry let him in.
The police said there was a long struggle. Terry fought with her
life, which ended
that night. When found, she wasn't recognizable.
In December 1999, police arrested William Patrick Fyfe in Ontario,
as he
returned to his truck after eating at a restaurant. They had DNA evidence,
photos
from an ATM machine, where he used Terry's bank card, and found jewelry he
stole from her.
He was charged with the murder of five women. The first in 1981 and
the last
four in the fall of 1999. Because of the years separating the first from the
last, police
suspected there were more.
While incarcerated, Fyfe admitted to four more murders. Police
suspect he has
only admitted to a portion of the crimes he committed
Fyfe serves a life sentence in a psychiatric hospital in
Saskatchewan, Canada and
serves as a reminder to all women to please be careful to whom you open your
doors.
Georgia took a long time to recover. The last time she and Terry
were together,
they had an argument. In the year before her death, they rarely spoke to each
other.
Georgia missed her sister and knew the time for words of apology would never
happen.
It was too late.
Michael T. Smith
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Traffic backed up a mile
on the I-84 heading east into Boise, Idaho. It was a
normal Wednesday morning, as traffic merged from an adjoining highway. I travel
the
same highway every day and know to stay in the right hand lane up to the merge
and
then move to the left lane. A few years of New Jersey traffic taught me to read
the lanes
for the fastest commute.
I approached the merge, saw a break in the left lane, and moved in front of a
dump truck. We passed the merge and gained speed. Orange cones on my left,
marked
the area where a third lane was being built. The work has been going on for a
year. It was
now paved but not open for commuters. Our speed got up to 45 miles-per-hour. I
glanced
at the clock. I would be to work on time.
Brake lights flashed. The car ahead grew larger. I jammed on my brakes and
came to a stop a few feet from his rear bumper. Movement in my mirror drew
caught my
attention. In my mirror saw the dump truck barreling in on me. I moved to the
right as far
as I could without hitting the cars in that lane and braced for the crash.
In seconds, it was over. The truck served to the left, destroyed several orange
cones, and came to a stop beside me. A cloud of blue tire smoke drifted over my
car.
I gagged from the smell and the fear of knowing the truck could have been on top
of me.
If not for the truck driver's quick reaction to serve into the construction
area, I would
have been seriously hurt or killed.
The next night, I left work and headed home. I reached the highway, merged into
traffic and immediately moved to the far left of three lanes . It moves faster,
once traffic
slows for a merge to two lanes a few miles ahead.
I heard a siren, looked in my mirror, and saw a police car coming up on my left
in
the breakdown lane. He flew by me and disappeared into the distance. Soon, a
second
police car blew by so fast, the wind caused my car to rock.
A half mile ahead, traffic came to stop. I sat under an overpass and waited. In
my
mirror, I saw a third police car racing up the breakdown lane on the left. Two
my right, a
fourth police cruiser came down an on ramp and cut diagonally across the three
lanes of
stopped traffic. His siren screamed a warning to let him through. Two cars ahead
of me,
he reached the left lane. An opening appeared in front of him. He shot out into
the
breakdown lane just as the policeman coming up the left passed. The police car
cutting
through traffic smashed into the rear passenger side of the other cruiser. Parts
of the two
cars flew through the air. The car that came up the left fishtailed several
times, gained
control and took off in pursuit of the first two cruisers. The policeman who hit
him sped
off in the same direction.
My hands shook as traffic inched forward. A quarter mile up the highway, the
police cruisers were stopped in the breakdown lanes, lights flashing. The one
that was hit,
had the rear passenger door and fender crushed in and a flat tire. Across the
cement
divide police had all four lanes in the other direction stopped and five
policemen held a
man down in the middle of the highway. Another policeman held the leash of an
attack
dog. I heard the man screaming obscenities as I passed.
The radio said it was the end of a high-speed chase. The police finally got him
over to the side with the help of a spike belt, but he wouldn't get out of his
car, and when
he did, he had to be tasered to be brought under control.
We passed the action, traffic sped up, and my hands slowly stopped shaking.
The two days of close calls on the highway reminded me why Ginny and I make sure
we always say hug, kiss, and say "I love you!" whenever we part. We never know
when
it will be the last time.
Never miss a moment to tell your loved ones how much they mean to you. Life is
fragile. It can end at any moment. Make those last words count.
Michael T. Smith
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My hand slipped and gave the black cat a lumpy nose. Fur rose on
its back. It's
fluffed tail stood straight in the air, as it hissed at a ghost rising from the
ground. Igrabbed an
orange crayon and began to trace the outline of a Jack-O-Lantern, careful to
stay inside the
lines and not make the same mistake I did with the cat. I wanted my
Jack-O-Lantern to be
perfect.
On my right, Rosemary was almost finished. She was fast and really good. She
colored better
than anyone in our four-room school.
My crayon twirled in small circles, carefully filling the pumpkin with orange. I
reached the teeth
- the hardest part. I got to the last tooth. My crayon caught in a crease in the
desk under the
paper and caused me to go outside the lines. To correct my mistake, I made that
tooth bigger
than the rest, and ruined my pumpkin's toothy grin. Then again, maybe it made it
scarier.
The bell rang. "Be careful tonight, children. Have fun trick-or-treating!"
I rushed home and burst through the door, "Mum? Mum, when can I go
out?"
"Michael, I've told you a hundred times this week, you can't go out until it's
dark. Do your
homework first. When you're done, you can have your supper and then get
dressed."
The smell of fried bologna and boiled potatoes drifted to my room. My stomach
growled, as I
completed my additions.
"Michael, supper's ready." Mum called. I closed my scribbler and rushed to the
table, ready to
eat and get my costume on.
My thoughts were on the night ahead, as I spread butter on the steaming potatoes
and then
smothered the bologna and potatoes with Ketchup©. Normally, this was a meal I
savored, but
it was Halloween. I gobbled my dinner down. "Mum? Time to get ready?" I stared
at her
anxiously.
The sun slipped behind the tress across the street. "Ok, I guess it's
time."
Mum helped me dress. Like most years, I was a hobo. I had a plastic mask of a
scary, old
man handed down from my older brothers. I slipped on a black pair of pants
several sizes too
large for me, and threaded my arms through the sleeves of a plaid checkered
shirt.
Mum helped me feed a piece of rope through the belt holes and tied it tight
around my waist.
My winter boots completed the outfit. She adjusted the mask on my face and said
I was
ready.
"Be careful!" Mum called after me.
I tilted my head, held the railing, and tried to see the steps through the holes
in my mask. My
pillow sack was slung over my shoulder. In a few hours it would hang like an
anchor, filled
with goodies.
I knocked on the door. "Is Justin ready?" I asked his Mum when she answered the
door.
"He sure is!" she said. "He's been waiting for you."
Justin Gilkie was my best friend back then. We planned to walk through the whole
village of
Sambro. He was dressed as a pirate and had a real sword from the nose of a
swordfish. The
scars on his mask, with red paint for blood, look real in the growing
twilight.
"How much do you think we'll get?" Justin asked.
"If we walk all the way to 'The Basin,' we'll have more than we can carry." The
Basin was on
the other side of Sambro.
"I hope we get lots of candy and chips. I hate it when we get too many apples."
he
said.
"I heard Martha's mom is giving candy apples." I said.
"OK! I like those, but regular apples seem cheap to me."
We reached the end of the point, and began to walk from house-to-house. Friends
joined us.
Sweat beaded on our faces under the masks. Between stops, we'd lift the masks to
cool off. In
a few hours, we'd walked dirt roads, climbed steep hills, stumbled back down
them, and
knocked on doors until our knuckles were sore.
I stood behind my friends, as Justin knocked on my door.
My mum looked out and began handing out candy. "Michael! You can't fool me!" My
face
turned red under my mask.
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"I'm tired." I said.
"Me too." Justin replied, his mask resting on the top on his head. The elastic
band holding it
was tangled in the hair at the back of his neck. "I got enough! Most houses are
out of stuff
anyway. Let's go home.
"OK! Let's go home. Tomorrow, let's get up early and look for firecrackers the
big kids
dropped. I wonder whose outhouse they'll turn over this year?"
I spilled the contents of my pillow case onto my bed: chocolate, sweet candies,
potato chips,
peanuts, and a bunch of other stuff. I stuffed everything back in the bag and
hid it under my
bed, so my brothers wouldn't find it.
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I stood by a light pole and watched little kids run from their parent's cars to
the front door of
our house. They knocked, gathered the candy my mum handed out, and rushed back
to their
cars. Heavy rain beat down on me.
I was thirteen - a year of change. I wanted to be little and gather candy. I
wanted to be older
and join the big kids in their mischief - lighting firecrackers, throwing rolls
of toilet paper over
tree limbs, or even rolling over an outhouse.
The rain beat down. I walked home. "You miss going out, don't you?" Mum asked,
as I
walked in the door, dripping water on the floor.
"No, I'm OK." I lied.
She looked at me and handed me a bag. "I saved some for you."
I went to bed and cherished my treat.
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It was the first big change of my life. I was too old to trick-or-treat. Toys
were left in a box
under my bed. Cars, dating, and freedom were in my future.
I was at the in-between stage.
Years later, I realized that night was the beginning of many changes. I'd grow
comfortable,
think everything was right in my life, and once again stand in the
rain.
I went to work and learned layoffs were coming. I wanted to stay where I was,
comfortable in
my surroundings. The future was unknown.
I stood in the rain.
A job offer came. It was in another province. I didn't want to move from what I
knew.
I stood in the rain.
I met new people, experienced new things, settled down, and in a few years,
another job came
to an end.
I stood in the rain.
Dressing up and knocking on doors on Halloween ended a long time ago, but when
times get
tough, I stand in the rain, knock on new doors, hold out my pillow case, and
wait to see what
treat life will fill it with.
I'm never disappointed.
Michael T. Smith
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A child's love is like a whisper,
They often do not say it loud,
The many ways they tell you,
Pop, I need some money,
Dad, I've got something to tell you...
Dad, I've got some news for you...
A child's love is like a whisper,
They often do not say it loud,
It is never ending. ~by S. Chan~ |
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The hands reached to choose a rock from those piled on the plywood
floor. They
shook with strain, as they lifted a large chunk of blue stone and positioned it
on the floor
in front of their master. The hands were callused and scarred, the knuckles
swollen and
arthritic from a lifetime of working with rock and brick.
I looked up at the man holding the rock. He was a black
African-Canadian, with a
face leathery and wrinkled from years of working in the sun. He looked back at
me and
smiled. The lines around his eyes and mouth deepened - lines created by years of
smiling.
I guessed him to be in his mid-seventies.
I'd met Fred on my way home from errands. I passed a crew of men
building a
rock wall around a yard. I stopped and asked to speak to the boss. A frail, old
gentleman
introduced himself, "I'm Fred. What can I do for you?" He spat a string of
tobacco juice
onto the lawn.
"Nice to meet you, Fred," I said. "I'm Mike." We shook hands. "Fred,
my
wife and I are building onto our house. We're adding a fireplace and want to
have a
rock facade built from floor-to-ceiling. Do you do this type of work?"
"Well, I don't like working interior jobs much. I prefer outdoor
jobs, like my
boys and I are doing here."
"I understand," I replied. "But most bricklayers won't work with
rock. They like
brick."
He paused for a moment. "What's your number? I'll give it some
thought and call
you." With a stubby pencil, sharpened with a knife, Fred wrote my number on a
piece of
cardboard.. "I'll give it some thought." he said again.
Fred called a few days later and arrived at our home soon after. I
showed him
our plans and the room where the fireplace would be built. "Well, like I said, I
don't
normally do this type of work, but I think I have some spare time."
Fred and his sons came back a few weeks later. They brought in
several
wheelbarrow loads of blue stone and dumped them on the unfinished floor. His
sons
brought in bags of cement, buckets of water, a box to mix them in, and left the
old man
alone.
Fred lowered himself to his knees, both of them cracking loudly. His
back
creaked, when he bent to reach for a rock. I lowered myself to the floor to
watch. He
studied the pile. "I need a few choice pieces for the base." he explained, more
to himself
than to me. "I need something flat. This one looks good." The rock in front of
him was
sort of flat on one side, but the other side was round. I was a little confused.
I looked into his eyes - bright, clear, and filled with youth and
strength, a contrast
to his aging body. These were the eyes of a man with a goal and a job to do.
They
sparkled when he smiled. "Let's see what I can do here."
He studied the rock in front of him, turning it in his hands. After
several minutes,
he picked up his hammer and chisel. He positioned the rock, placed the chisel on
a spot,
only he could choose, and struck it with the hammer. The rock spit into two
pieces. The
largest piece now had two flat sides. When he had the rocks he needed for the
base, he
mixed the water and cement, and carefully placed the rocks where he wanted them.
For two days I watched him work, mesmerized by his skill. "Fred, how
do you
do that?" I asked.
"I like working with blue stone. It splits nicely."
"Yeah, but how do you look at a spot, then at the rocks, and chose
the one you
want?"
He was patient. "Well, like I said, I like working with blue stone.
I can see the
grain of the rock. See that spot, up there?" He pointed at a spot half-way up
the wall - a
small hole between a large stone and the wall. "I need a piece of rock to fit
there." He
motioned to the rocks in front of him. "Not one of these rocks will fit. I have
to find one
with the right grain - one that will allow me to mold it.
"See this rock?" Fred picked up a rock that looked wrong to me. "See
the grain?"
I stared hard. I could see lines, but not what I considered a grain,
like the grain in
wood. "Not really, Fred."
"Just watch." he smiled. With his chisel and hammer, the misshapen
rock was
soon fitted into place. I was in awe of his skill. In a few days, our rock
facade was
complete.
We asked Fred if he could make the cement lines darker. The contrast
of
cement and blue stone was not appealing. Fred mixed more cement, black powder,
and
water. As he stirred, he spat his black tobacco juice into the mixture, making
himself
a part of his work and our home forever.
He and one of his sons, carefully, filled in the spaces between the
rocks, covering
the cement with his very appealing black mixture. Fred was a master in his
trade. He
never thought of a job as work; he looked at it as a challenge. His work was,
literally, as
hard as rock, but he knew how to make it easy. He studied it and broke it into
smaller, more manageable pieces.
Fred knew what many of us have yet to learn - take the hard things
in life and break
them down into something we can manage - one piece at a time.
Michael T. Smith
Why I call you "Friends who Wave Back"-
Happiest Day
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In the Smallest Way
By Kristi Powers
Their faces all blur together…
I see her when I look in the mirror tonight…the girl who has lost all hope...her
dark eyes haunt my thoughts, what can I say Lord? How can I bring her hope?
I see him when I wake up in the middle of the night. I wonder if he is awake and
still praying and hoping those unwanted feelings will go away. The tears fall
softly down my cheeks as I pray for him. Lord, why was he given these feelings?
Why must he struggle day after day with those thoughts?
I “see” another young man when I watch a school play… I remember watching him
year after year and hearing about what a special young man he was...all of his
life ahead of him. Why Lord? Why did he end his life? What can those he left
behind do with the all the pain and agony of not understanding. If only… if only
he had reached out to just one person before giving into the despair and
hopelessness…
I see her in my minds eye…one of the most outwardly beautiful girls I have ever
known....but she doesn't see her beauty when she looks in the mirror. She only
sees her failures and her flaws. Her insecurity shouts so much louder then the
still small voice inside her. Why Lord? Why can’t she see herself the way you
do? Why can't she latch onto your Words when You call her your precious,
precious daughter? Perfect in her flaws for You have made her.
I ask these questions of You tonight, and I search my heart for what You would
say to me…
This is how you answer me…
"My child, there is no pit so deep, that My love is not deeper still. I see each
of these also. They are so much better left in My hands then yours. For you see,
I am at work....you may not see Me, you may not hear Me, but in My Word I say
that I am close to the broken hearted. My ways are not your ways child. How
quickly you forget that I have each hair on their head numbered. My love for
them is endless and never changing. They only need to stretch out their hand
from the pit they are in, and I will pull them up and hold on to them and never
let them go.
There is nothing that goes unnoticed by Me.
Remember my child, I say that for anyone who harms one of my children, it would
be better for them to tie a millstone around their neck and be thrown into the
sea. I take it very seriously when someone messes with my children. For I love
them so very much. Trust me Kristi. Trust that I see and hear and know and My
plan for them is one of hope and a future."
Within the quiet of my soul I then ask, “How can I help you Lord? What would
you require of me?” And then I remember that it is in the little things of life
that the big things are made. It is in the kindness of a small deed or thought
that You are seen.
“Do you remember Kristi?”
“Yes”, I reply, “I remember.” Twenty-five years ago, and I still remember. I
remember standing up for her.
“It was such a small thing, Lord, to stand up for her in gym class.”
“But what happened Kristi?”
“It gave her the confidence and hope she needed, Lord. It was the small act of
kindness that she needed to know how much You loved her Lord. Afterwards she
was able to stand up for herself. To know she was worthy. That she was
confident. That she was loved....just the way she was.”
“And that, My child, is what I require of you. The hand for them to hold on to
when the waves of life crash in. The lap to lay their head in and just cry when
all of the world seems too dark to go on. Sometimes, but only sometimes, you
will be the one to stand up for them, to say where the wrong has been done to
them. To be My voice and to be their defender.”
I take it all in as God’s still small voice speaks to my heart.
“Kristi, there is one thing above all others that I would have you do.”
“Anything, Lord, anything!”
“PRAY. For I hear your prayers and I answer. Maybe not in the way you would
like, but I answer prayer. Sometimes I answer it in the smallest way.
As I finish pouring my heart out to God this evening, I put my laptop away and I
gently lift the sleeping five-year-old that has been curled up next to me and
carry him to his room. As I tuck him in his bed he opens up those large sleepy
eyes and says, "Mommy, I love you. You are the nicest Mommy in the world."
I sit on his bed and smile. In twelve words, my youngest has made my night a
special one. Twelve words was all it took to end my day on a joyful note…
in the smallest way....
Kristi Powers
NoodlesP29@aol.com
Copyright © 2009 by Kristi Powers
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Kristi is happily married to Michael and they have three boys. Her writing
appears in seven inspirational books, including many in the Chicken Soup series,
and their own book entitled: Heart Touchers. Kristi is also homeschool mom and
fills her "free time" doing youth ministry and loves her job as a CASA
volunteer!
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There wasn't much of
a spring that year. It was cold and rainy. In June, summer
dropped on us with 90 degree temperatures and humidity so high, the small patch
of hair
left on the top of my head became unmanageable.
I sat on my deck one
night, mopped sweat from my face, and pondered the
coming summer. My son was excited. His final exams were complete. He had two
months to do what he wanted to do. I remembered what it was like when I was
young, in
school, and waiting for those final days of school to end.
On that last day, I
would be so excited, I wouldn't hear a word my teacher said.
The bell rang, summer began, and we ran out the door, yelling and tossing old
books into
the air. I rushed home, showed my mum my report card, told her I graded, and ran
outside to ... to what? I was free for two months. I could do whatever I
wanted, but my
mind was blank. The routine of school was gone. I didn't know what to do with
myself.
My best friends were bussed five
or ten miles from neighboring communities.
They were gone until the fall.
Why was I sad on the last day of school? I should have been ecstatic.
I sat by a rock.
Blackie, my old dog, came along, licked my face and settled
beside me.
"Come on, Blackie! Let's go to Grandmum's."
My Grandmum lived
down the street from us and always had a plate of muffins
ready. Sometimes they had white icing and other times pink, but they were always
good.
It was my morning routine to visit her for a muffin and a talk. Together we
waited for my
Grandfather's boat to enter the harbor. When it did, I'd rush to the wharf and
wait to see
how many fish he'd caught that day.
After a few weeks, a routine set in. I'd wake, go to Grandmum's, eat
a muffin or
two, play on the shores around the harbor, examine the various items that had
drifted onto
the shores, and go home for lunch.
In the afternoons, I'd go to the brook - the place to be on hot
days. My friends
and I spent every afternoon there. It was a mile from our house and the
gathering place
for kids of all ages. With our towels draped over our shoulders, we'd bike,
walk, or hitch-
hike to it every day - sometimes twice a day.
The "Brook" was wide enough to be a river, but it was only a mile or
so long. It
flowed from a lake and cut a rocky swath through the forest. In several spots,
the rocks
opened to form natural pools. The two swimming spots were called the "Little
Hole" and
the "Big Hole." The "Little Hole" was shallow and had a light current. It was
perfect for
kids learning to swim. The "Big Hole" was further up the brook. It was deep and
had a
swift current. It was the place the big kids went and the little kids envied.
Every small kid
couldn't wait to graduate to the "Big Hole."
On one side, the "Big Hole" was a pile of rocks, mostly or partly
covered with
water. On the other side was a six foot rock cliff - perfect for diving. The
entrance to the
pool was narrow. Water squeezed quickly through the rocks, dispersed throughout
the
pool, and rushed out the lower end. After a heavy rain, the current was strong.
A good
swimmer could swim in one spot until they tired and the waters won the contest.
My friends and I played "tag". All afternoon, we chased each other,
ran over the
rocks, and dived from our pursuers. We were as nimble as mountain goats. In
spite of the
rocks, no one was seriously hurt. There were a few scrapes, but never serious
injuries.
Years of play made us sure-footed.
There was a fish plant close to my home. In the afternoon, the
returned to the
harbor. We'd check to see who brought in the largest catch. I once saw a halibut
that
weighed one hundred and eighty pounds and a few swordfish that weighted over
1000
pounds.
If it was hot, I made extra money going to the store for the
workers. On a good
day, I'd make more than a dollar - a lot of money for a young boy in the 1960's.
"Mike,
go to the store and get me a lunch cake and a can of Coke." A man said.
One-after-the other, the men placed their orders. When I delivered,
they gave me
a dime or nickel, and sometimes a quarter. I saved the money and bought a
bicycle my
first new bike.
In the evenings, if my
friends and I didn't go to the brook, we'd fish from the
wharves, and catch Pollock, cod, perch, and mackerel. Mackerel were our
favorite. They
fought like demons on the end of the line and tasted wonderful
The days sped along,
and soon August arrived. I hated August. After August came
September - the end of summer - and the end of freedom. I'd become depressed and
not
go to the brook. I'd still fish a little and still go to the fish plant, but not
as often. The
thought of school depressed me. I'd stay home and read or walk in the woods.
September
loomed in the near future - back to the routine I missed in June. I wasted the
last half my
summer dreading its end.
Sitting on the deck the other day, I realized I was doing it again.
As a kid, I knew
August would end. It was on the calendar. However, there is no
set calendar to life. It could end tomorrow. After losing my first wife, I know
only too
well how the calendar works. I'm middle aged and like many people, I dread the
end.
One day, I'll turn a page on my calendar and discover it's the last page. I wake
in the
morning and ask myself, "Is this the last page? How many pages are left?"
Today, I've decided
to stop worrying about it. I am going to live my life to the
fullest. I'm going to love Ginny with every ounce of my heart. I'll work, write,
play and
forget about the last page. I'm going to enjoy the story as it unfolds.
When my summer ends, it will be time to rake up the leaves I've
dropped, tidy up
my life, and wait for the reward of a good life. The bulbs I planted grew into
fine adults.
They'll continue to blossom and spread without me. I'm not going to waste the
last
month of "the summer of life" worrying about it's end.
Michael T. Smith
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A Letter For Mom
Sally jumped up as soon as she saw the Surgeon come out of the operating room. She said: "How is my little boy? Is he going to be O.K.? When can I see him?" The Surgeon said, "I'm sorry, we did all we could." Sally said, "Why do little children get cancer, doesn't GOD care any more? GOD, where were you when my son needed you?" The Surgeon said, "One of the nurses will be out in a few minutes to let you spend time with your son's remains before it's transported to the university". Sally asked that the nurse stay with her while she said Good-bye to her son.
Sally ran her fingers through his thick red curly hair. The nurse said, "Would you like a lock of his hair?" Sally nodded yes. The nurse cut a lock of his hair and put it in a plastic bag and handed it to Sally. Sally said, "It was Jimmy's idea to give his body to the university for study. He said it might help somebody else," and that is what he wanted. I said, No at first, but Jimmy said, "Mom I won't be using it after I die, maybe it will help some other little boy to be able to spend one more day with his mother". Sally said, "My Jimmy had a heart of Gold, always thinking of someone else and always wanting to help others if he could".
Sally walked out of the Children's Hospital for the last time now after spending most of the last 6 months there. She sat the bag with Jimmy's things in it on the seat beside of her in the car. The drive home was hard and it was even harder to go into an empty house. She took the bag to Jimmy's room and started placing the model cars and things back in his room exactly where he always kept them. She laid down across his bed and cried herself to sleep holding his pillow. Sally woke up about midnight and laying beside of her on the bed, was a letter folded up. She opened the letter, it said:
Dear Mom, I know your going to miss me, but don't think that I will ever forget you or stop loving you because I'm not around to say I LOVE YOU. I'll think of you every day mom and I'll love you even more each day. Some day we will see each other again. If you want to adopt a little boy so you won't be so lonely, he can have my room and my old stuff to play with. If you decide to get a girl instead, she probably wouldn't like the same things as us boys do, so you will have to buy her dolls and stuff girls like. Don't be sad when you think about me, this is really a great place. Grandma and Grandpa met me as soon as I got here and showed me around some, but it will take a long time to see everything here. The angels are so friendly, I love to watch them fly. Jesus doesn't look like any of the pictures I saw of Him, but I knew it was Him as soon as I saw Him. Jesus took me to see GOD!
And guess what mom? I got to sit on GOD'S knee and talk to Him like I was somebody important. I told GOD that I wanted to write you a letter and tell you Good-bye and everything, but I knew that wasn't allowed. God handed me some paper and His own personal pen to write you this letter with. I think Gabriel is the name of the angel that is going to drop this letter off to you. God said for me to give you the answer to one of the questions you asked Him about. Where was He when I needed him? God said, "The same place He was when Jesus was on the cross. He was right there, as He always is with all His children. Oh, by the way Mom, nobody else can see what is written on this paper but you. To everyone else, it looks like a blank piece of paper. I have to give God His pen back now, he has some more names to write in the Book Of Life. Tonight I get to sit at the table with Jesus for Supper.
I'm sure the food will be great. I almost forgot to let you know - Now I don't hurt anymore, the cancer is all gone. I'm glad because I couldn't stand that pain anymore and God couldn't stand to see me suffer the pain either, so He sent The Angel of Mercy to get me. The Angel said I was Special Delivery! Signed with love from: God & Jesus & Me. ~Author Unknown~~ |



When should you pass news on and when should you keep it to yourself?
An old fable has it that a scholar in ancient Baghdad was said to be unusually wise. One day an acquaintance met the great scholar and said, 'Do you know what I just heard about your friend?'
'Wait,' the scholar replied. 'Before you continue, let me ask a question.
'Is what you are about to tell me the truth?'
'I don't know,' the man said.
'All right,' said the scholar.
'You don't know if it's true. Let me ask another question.'
'Is what you are about to tell me good?'
'No, it isn't!' the man replied.
'Then allow me to ask a third question.'
'Is what you are about to tell useful to me?' asked the scholar.
'No, it is not useful,' said the man.
Then the scholar said, 'If it may not be true, if it is not good and it is not useful, then why do you want to tell me at all?'
Does your news pass the triple filter test? Ask yourself these questions before you speak: Is what I am about to say the truth? Is it good? And is it useful? If you can answer yes to only two of these questions, be careful about what you pass along. But if what you are about to tell passes all three filters, then it should be told!
My friend Bob Burg has a different approach. 'Play the 'Reverse Gossip' Game,' he says. 'See how many nice things you can say behind someone's back.'
Sounds like a game that everyone wins.
Written by Steve Goodier
Steve Goodier publishes This is Your Life Support System, a free e-newsletter sharing life, love and laughter.



My name was first Samantha
In the days long, long ago.
My Ma Ma was a little girl
And Oh, I loved her so!
She clapped her hands and hugged me tight
When she found me underneath the tree
That frosty Christmas morning
In eighteen ninety three.
No dolly ever had such love.
Or knew a greater pride.
Ma Ma kept my clothes just so
And I was always at her side.
The happy days were soon to pass,
Ma Ma looked at me one day
And said "I've grown too old for dolls
I must put you away."
So for many years I never knew
The darkness from the night.
But one day I was awakened from my sleep
and brought out into the light.
The one who held me in her hands
Wore clothes so strange to see,
Her eyes were hard, he lips were stern.
I did not like her holding me.
""This must have been Grandma's doll,"
she cried,
"A real antique. How nice,
And in very good condition too,
She should bring a fancy price."
Now I have a new Ma Ma
She says I cost her dear,
But she never holds me in her arms,
Or says things I like to hear.
She puts me in a room of glass
With dolls all in a row,
And she has given me another name.
She calls me Bebe Bru.
My curls are brushed, my clothes are fine
and lots of people come to stare.
But there is no love light in their eyes,
No one to really care.
How I long for hugs and kisses
And a little girl with whom to play.
My new Ma Ma just comes and looks
And then she goes away.
If she knew I was just plain Samantha
and not Bebe Bru,
Do you suppose I would know the love again
I once knew long ago?!
~Author Unknown~

A
Moment of Clarity
Weeks of obsessive tending and
gentle turning ensured a blue ribbon for his
biggest pumpkin next weekend. Simeon's chest
puffed with impending pride as he
fantasized about the envious stares of the
other town folk, especially that pretty, stuck-up
woman next door, who always looked through him,
not at him.
Secretly he admired Elizabeth, but was upset with her complete lack
of interest in
him. He often saw her head above the high fence
in her back yard, probably working in
her garden, but he couldn't be sure. The fence
was solid. He was curious, but refrained
from looking over the top for fear she'd see
him, which would give her more reason to be
snooty and spread rumors about the strange
farmer boy next door.
A week later, Simeon stood proudly by his pumpkin, which weighed in
at four
hundred and seventy-eight pounds. No other
pumpkin on display was even close to the
size of his. He was a sure winner.
He turned toward a commotion at the entrance to the barn. Several
men struggled
with a cart which carried something huge
covered with a tarp. Simeon watched with
apprehension as they turned down the aisle
where the pumpkins were displayed. They
pushed their cargo passed Simeon and stopped
near the end of the row. His fear was
realized when the tarp was removed and the
biggest pumpkin he had ever seen was hefted
by a dozen men from the cart and placed on the
scales. Those gathered around gasped
and then applauded.
After the pumpkin was placed on display, Simeon strolled over and
stared in
shock at the tag: Weight: 567 Lbs. - Owner: E.
H.
"E. H.? Who's E. H.?" he wondered.
"Hello, Simeon." He turned and stared at his neighbor, Elizabeth
Hannah.
"Elizabeth?" he stuttered. "You grew this? Is this what you were
working on
in your backyard all summer?"
Elizabeth smiled. "Yes, I did." Her green eyes sparkled with pride.
"And yes
this is what I worked on."
"I didn't know you were interested ... He paused. "I didn't know you
liked to
grow pumpkins."
"It's something I got interested in after watching you
year-after-year."
"You noticed?"
"Of course, you silly boy."
He blushed. His dream of winning this year was forgotten. Something
more
important was at hand. "I'm surprised. This is
some pumpkin, Elizabeth." He lifted
his hat and scratched his head.
"Yours is big too, Sim."
Sim? Did she just call him "Sim"? Only his departed mother had ever
called him
that. "Yup! It is, but it looks like you beat
me by close to a hundred pounds."
***********************
The cold wind started again and he
shivered, watching the sky darken too quickly.
As bright, painted leaves rained on his crop,
he instinctively turned his head toward an
infant's cry. At the top of the hill, under the
old Maple, his former stuck-up neighbor was
shielding a bundle from the wind, fumbling with
her blouse. Simeon watched her nurse
their son.
After learning Elizabeth did notice him and that she also enjoyed
the challenge of
growing large pumpkins, his attitude toward her
changed. He learned she wasn't snooty;
she was just shy. They became friends. Love
bloomed. Now they were a family.
***********************
"Dad!" his son called. "Dad!"
Simeon was pulled from his memories. He turned and stared at the
strangely
familiar man who called out. "Dad, it's time to
go."
Simeon struggled to remember who this man was. His gaze fell upon a
white-
haired lady who stood at the man's side. She
smiled at him. Simeon's mind cleared.
Confusion, his constant companion, was
momentarily gone. On elderly legs, he hobbled
closer. His gnarled hands shook as he cupped
the woman's face. "Ellie? Is that you?"
Her still clear green eyes stared back at him. They filled with
tears. A bright
smile lit up her face. "Sim!" She choked on her
words. "Sim, I love you." She reached
out and held him in her frail arms.
Simeon rested his gray head against hers. "Where have you been?" He
sobbed.
"I've missed you so much."
"I've been here, Sim. I've been here all along."
***********************
Simeon sat in his wheel chair and
stared into the past. Alzheimer's had done
its damage. The ceremony around him was a blur
of confusion. A cold wind ruffled his
white hair. His son tucked a blanket around
him. "Are you warm enough, Dad?' Simeon
continued to stare into his own world.
His son left Simeon's side, approached the opening of the grave, and
placed a
single red rose on his mother's casket. "Mom,"
he whispered. "You got your wish. You
wanted dad to recognize you one more time
before the cancer took you away." He paused
to gain control of his grief. "You were right
to take dad to the old farm. It gave him one
rare moment of clarity. Now you can rest in
peace."
Michael T. Smith
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At the prodding of my friends, I am writing this story. My name is Mildred Hondorf. I am a former elementary school music teacher from Des Moines, Iowa. I've always supplemented my income by teaching piano lessons--something I've done for over 30 years.
Over the years I found that children have many levels of musical ability. I've never had the pleasure of having a protégé though I have taught some talented students. However I've also had my share of what I call "musically challenged" pupils. One such student was Robby. Robby was 11 years old when his mother (a single mom) dropped him off for his first piano lesson. I prefer that students (especially boys!) begin at an earlier age, which I explained to Robby. But Robby said that it had always been his mother's dream to hear him play the piano. So I took him as a student. Well, Robby began with his piano lessons and from the beginning I thought it was a hopeless endeavor. As much as Robby tried, he lacked the sense of tone and basic rhythm needed to excel. But he dutifully reviewed his scales and some elementary pieces that I require all my students to learn.
Over the months he tried and tried while I listened and cringed and tried to encourage him. At the end of each weekly lesson he'd always say, "My mom's going to hear me play some day." But it seemed hopeless. He just did not have any inborn ability. I only knew his mother from a distance as she dropped Robby off or waited in her aged car to pick him up. She always waved and smiled but never stopped in. Then one day Robby stopped coming to our lessons. I thought about calling him but assumed, because of his lack of ability, that he had decided to pursue somethingelse. I also was glad that he stopped coming. He was a bad advertisement for my teaching!
Several weeks later I mailed to the student's homes a flyer on theupcoming recital. To my surprise Robby (who received a flyer) asked me if he could be in the recital. I told him that the recital was for current pupils and because he had dropped out he really did not qualify. He said that his mom had been sick and unable to take him to piano lessons but he was still practicing. "Miss Hondorf...I've just got to play!" he insisted. I don't know what led me to allow him to play in the recital. Maybe it was his persistence or maybe it was something inside of me saying that it would be all right. The night for the recital came. The high school gymnasium was packed with parents, friends and relatives. I put Robby up last in the program before I was to come up and thank all the students and play a finishing piece. I thought that any damage he would do would come at the end of the program and I could always salvage his poor performance through my "curtain closer."
Well the recital went off without a hitch. The students had been practicing and it showed. Then Robby came up on stage. His clothes were wrinkled and his hair looked like he' run an egg-beater through it. "Why didn't he dress up like the other students?" I thought. "Why didn't his mother at least make him comb his hair for this special night?" Robby pulled out the piano bench and he began. I was surprised when he announced that he had chosen Mozart's Concerto #21 in C Major. I was not prepared for what I heard next. His fingers were light on the keys, they even danced nimbly on the ivories. He went from pianissimo to fortissimo...from allegro to virtuoso. His suspended chords that Mozart demands were magnificent! Never had I heard Mozart played so well by people his age. After six and a half minutes he ended in a grand crescendo and everyone was on their feet in wild applause. Overcome and in tears I ran up on stage and put my arms around Robby in joy. "I've never heard you play like that Robby! How'd you do it?" Through the microphone Robby explained: "Well Miss Hondorf...remember I told you my mom was sick? Well actually she had cancer and passed away this morning. And well....she was born deaf so tonight was the first time she ever heard me play. I wanted to make it special."
There wasn't a dry eye in the house that evening. As the people from Social Services led Robby from the stage to be placed into foster care, I noticed that even their eyes were red and puffy and I thought to myself how much richer my life had been for taking Robby as my pupil. No, I've never had a protégé but that night I became a protégé...of Robby's. He was the teacher and I was the pupil. For it is he that taught me the meaning of perseverance and love and believing in yourself and maybe even taking a chance in someone and you don't know why. Robby was killed in the senseless bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City in April of 1995, where he was reportedly....playing the piano. ~By Mildred Hondorf~
Please note that this story is reported to be
fiction and not true.
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Sheryl, this story is for you.
The nights grew long - the air
cooler. Leaves changed color. Migrating birds
made their way south - fleeing winter. Fall was
almost upon us - my favorite time of
year. A walk through the forest was a trip to
an art gallery. The trees compete, each a
work of nature's glorious art.
A canopy of color shaded me. I stood under them, looked up, and saw
sunlight
streaming through the branches. It struck each
leaf. They reflected it with an un-
imaginable brilliance.
In the quiet of the forest, I heard a small snap. A single leaf
floated delicately
to the ground. A light breeze stirred the
branches - a multicolored snow storm. The
colored flakes landed on my head and shoulders.
They cover the seeds and nuts dropped
earlier in the year. Some already had small
sprouts reaching for the sky.
The seeds of new life were soon buried under a cover of delicate and
dying
leaves, a cover provided by the tall trees
standing over them. The leaves protected the
future from the cold winter to follow. In
spring, the leaves decomposed and provided rich
nutrients to nourish the young - a new
generation.
A week later I was back. I wanted to enjoy the season before it was
gone. The
leaves rustled under my feet. The air was
scented with the odor of dampness and decomposition, as the leaves began to
decay - a pleasant smell. I shuffle along, pushing
the leaves in front of me. They parted and
swirled around my feet like the waters on a
beach. My heart was heavy. Another year was
gone.
At home, I looked in the mirror - a hint of grey at my temples. I
noticed a few
more in the whiskers on my chin and a few chest
hairs followed suit. The hair on the
top of my head, like the leaves, were mostly
gone. I'm in the fall of life. Could my winter
be close?
I sat in my chair, tried to watch a game on television, but I
couldn't focus. Where
did my spring and summer go?
My son walked by. He was a tall, healthy, and good looking young
man. "See ya,
Dad. I'm going to work." The door closed behind
him.
I thought of the trees, the seeds, the nuts, the leaves, my children
and
grandchildren. Like the trees, I spread my
seeds and protected them. They grew from
seeds and sprouts, to tall, strong saplings.
The trees and I have weathered many storms. We swayed and bent under
their
force, but we stood over our young, sheltered
them, and covered them when they were
cold.
My heart felt lighter. Fall was not the beginning of the end. It is
the past
protecting the future. One day, a storm will
blow in and I'll topple over - winter. The
young I sheltered, free of my shadow, will take
my place to protect the next generation -
my job complete.
Michael T. Smith
Thank you for your friendship, Sheryl. Your job here is done. Your saplings will
carry
on.
Michael T. Smith
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I was sitting on a bench while in a nearby mall, When I noticed a young mother with two children who were small.
The youngest one was whining,
"Don't hang on to me," she
shouted
"The time will come too quickly
"The day will sneak up
subtly
"Like those sacred, pre-dawn feedings
"So when your child comes
to you
"When he comes to sit and chat
"Remember what all parents
learn
"Take every opportunity,
I watched that mother walk away ~by Kathie Davis~
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The sun dropped below the horizon.
The sky turned dark. The first stars of the
night began to shine. It was the peak night for
the Perseids meteor shower. We gathered
our grandchildren in the back yard. Some sat in
chairs and others stretched out on
blankets. No street lights were nearby to
hinder our view.
"There's one!" Seth, the oldest yelled.
"I missed it!" I whined.
"There's another one!" Josh yelled.
"I saw it!" Ginny and I said together as a streak of dust burned
across the sky and
faded into nothing.
The youngest, Benny, sat in a chair beside me. "Are you watching,
Ben?" I asked.
"Yes."
"Did you see that last one?"
"No!" He sighed. "I missed it."
"Then you weren't watching, were you?"
We cheered and pointed each time a meteor lit the night sky.
"Poppa Mike?" Benny asked.
"Yes, Ben?"
"Clara is the loneliest train, you know?"
I had no idea what Benny was talking about or where the thought came
from, so I
just played along. "Is that so?" I asked.
"Uh huh?"
"Why is she lonely? Is she ugly?"
"Well, no!" He paused. "She has a boyfriend you know."
"But she's still lonely?"
"Yeah."
Another meteor made a white slash in the night sky. "Wow! Did you
see it, Ben?"
"No, I missed it again."
"Ben, you have to pay attention."
A few weeks later, a lightning storm slowly crawled across the
western sky. We
watched the bolts of lightning streak
diagonally from north-to-south, It was a spectacular
display of nature, one we safely watched from a
distance.
"Wow! Did you see that one boys?" I asked my grandsons.
"No! We missed it again."
"Guys, you have to focus, these things happen fast. If you don't
focus, you'll miss
them."
Later that night, after the boys went to bed, I sat out on the deck
while Ginny, her
daughter, Heather, and her son-in-law, Nathan,
watched a show on TV. They laughed
each time I screamed, "WOW! That was a good
one."
Alone with my thoughts and the lightning, I remembered the meteor
shower. The
lightning was the same. The flashes of light
were gone in the blink of an eye. I asked
myself, "Mike, how many of life's meteors and
lightning bolts have you missed because
you weren't paying attention?"
I had no answer to the question, for if I knew, then I wouldn't have
missed
them. How many times have I come home from work
too wrapped in my own thoughts
and missed those "daddy's home" smiles of my
children? Those little smiles are lost
forever, as I walked right by them. How many
opportunities did I miss to praise my wife
or my children? How many chances to say, "I
love you" to my wife did I miss?
I made a pledge that night to pay more attention to those around me.
When I
arrive home from work, work stays at work and
my attention is on my family, because
those opportunities - those flashes of light -
don't last long. They are gone in a flash.
Michael T. Smith
Why I call you "Friends who Wave Back".
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Years ago I heard a story of a dad named Paul who
gave his young son a small chalkboard to practice writing on. One evening his
son called out from the bedroom, 'Dad, how do you spell best?'
Paul answered him. Moments later, the boy hollered, 'How do you spell kid?'
Finally he asked, 'How do you spell ever?'
When the boy showed him what he'd written on the chalkboard, Paul expected to
see 'I'm the best kid ever.' Instead, the boy beamed as Paul read the message:
'You're the best dad a kid can ever have.'
Paul recalled that it was one of the best days of his life. In fact, he had to
buy his son another chalkboard because he wanted to save this message forever
and hang it on his wall. It's still there.
Feeling appreciated is enormously important to adults as well as children. So
much so that we often don't think enough about what we'd most like to be
appreciated for.
Being appreciated at work is a big deal. Who doesn't want approval and respect
from one's boss and co-workers? Beyond the economic value of raises, promotions,
and commendations, praise can be gratifying and motivating. That's why good
employers look for opportunities to acknowledge and thank employees for their
contributions.
Yet as meaningful as work recognition is, if you could choose between winning
your child's 'Best Mom or Dad A Kid Can Ever Have' award and being named 'Best
Employee,' which would you choose?
The point is not to belittle the pursuit of approval in your business life but
to remind you how much more meaningful it is to know you're important to and
appreciated by the people who love and need you the most. Your most important
job in life is to be worthy of that appreciation.
Being the 'best ever' mom or dad, husband or wife, or friend - it doesn't get
any better than that.
Written
by Michael Josephson
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A daughter complained to her father about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.
Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In one he placed carrots, in the second he placed eggs, and the last he placed ground coffee beans. He let them sit and boil, without saying a word.
The daughter sucked her teeth and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing. In about twenty minutes he and turned off the burners. He fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then he ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.
Turning to her he asked. "Darling, what do you see." "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied. He brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard- boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. She smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.
She humbly asked. "What does it mean Father?"
He explained that each of them had faced the same adversity, boiling water, but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. But after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
"Which are you," he asked his daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?"
How about you? Are you the carrot that seems hard, but with pain and adversity do you wilt and become soft and lose your strength?
Are you the egg, which starts off with a malleable heart? Were you a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a divorce, or a layoff have you become hardened and stiff. Your shell looks the same, but are you bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and heart?
Or are you like the coffee bean? The bean changes the hot water, the thing that is bringing the pain, to its peak flavor reaches 212 degrees Fahrenheit. When the water gets the hottest, it just tastes better. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and make things better around you
How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?
~By Eric Mansfield~
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The beveled glass box atop my dresser dances with
color when morning sunlight streams through the window. The multitude of color
prompts me to pause; it's become a special time each day when I reflect on
memories of my mother.
I remember well the Mother's Day it was given to her for the prior month had
been my parent's 50th wedding anniversary. After a reception in their hometown,
the following month we kids sent them to Jamaica to continue their celebration.
They returned from the trip on Mother's Day weekend.
Mom marveled at the glass jewelry box from the moment she opened the package.
All sides were beveled and the top was finely etched with flowers and
hummingbirds; or as she always referred to her favorite feathered friends,
'hummers.' It wasn't large; actually it was just the right size for dropping
earrings and a necklace into at the end of the day, or for holding pieces worn
most often.
Many years passed that I didn't really see it up close, but on the occasions I
entered my folk's bedroom it always caught my eye as it rested upon Mom’s
dresser.
The glass box is more than a beautiful, cherished accessory that holds a variety
of Mom's favorite jewelry items; the essence of who she was is tucked inside.
Hence, the contents will remain as they are; my gemstones will not be
intermingled.
The strands of cultured pearls trigger memories of the many pearls of wisdom she
shared with me.
The few diamonds bring to mind her viewpoint as regards judging others. No
matter their social status or background each person is unique and many are a
diamond in the rough just waiting for their time to shine.
The gold items hark back to Mother's certainty that silence is golden; one
should be open-minded and listen to the opinions of others, whether you agreed
or not. A difference in beliefs was no cause for discord but probably indicated
the subject of conversation should be changed.
The silver items prompt me to maintain a positive attitude; Mother chose to
believe that most dark clouds were lined with silver.
After her passing, while sorting Mom's earrings, necklaces and such I discovered
several retro pieces I'd not seen before. They were passé by the time I was of
the age to admire baubles and beads, but she had stunning brooch and earrings
sets. The pieces that I chose to keep, while selecting meaningful items for
each grand daughter, creates a myriad of hues that transform the beveled glass
box into a device with the ability to capture a rainbow.
After suffering through the Great Depression, Mother's passion for lovely but
tasteful costume jewelry revealed that she always remained quite frugal. Still,
when morning sun strikes the authentic and artificial display of stones, gold,
and silver . . . a mighty shimmer is unleashed; I feel I'm being reminded to
reflect on and live by the pearls of wisdom Mom felt most important.
Mother was one of eleven siblings raised by parents that spent their lifetime as
tenant farmers. Add to that the Great Depression, and she truly understood the
fundamental priorities necessary for a fulfilling life, and costly jewelry was
not one of those!
I've done my best to live by her teachings . . . and pray she left this world
satisfied that I did grasp and appreciate her life lessons.
Remembering . . . Lovey Arlene Boucher
Written by Kathleene S. Baker
Kathy was born and raised in the small town of Augusta, Kansas, a few miles outside of Wichita. She married a native Texan, Jerry, in 1977 and was soon transplanted to Dallas. Kathy has two stepchildren and four grandchildren. Pets have always played a huge part in her life. In fact, they were her inspiration to begin writing. Kathy has stories and poems featured on many websites, in various newsletters, publications, newspapers and anthologies. Read more of Kathy's wonderful stories on her website ... Yellow Rose >>>

My newborn daughter, Vanessa,
kicked her tiny foot against my stomach and
gave a weak cry. I adjusted her bottle. "There
you are, sweetie." She latched onto the
nipple and stared at me. I was in love with my
three-week-old, little girl.
Georgia, still recovering from giving me my first child, walked up
to me. "Happy,
Father's Day!" She smiled and handed me an
envelope. "Michael," she apologized. "I
didn't have time to shop. This is all I have
for your first Father's Day. I wish I could
give you more."
I looked at her. "Georgia, it's OK. You're still not well. It's only
been a couple
of weeks." I looked at the gift in my arms.
"You gave me Vanessa. Could I ask for
more?"
She stared at me. A tear formed in the corner of her right eye and
began to trickle
down her cheek. "I know, but this is your first
Father's Day. I wanted it to be special."
"It is special." I replied and reached for her hand. "Look at her!"
I glanced at
Vanessa. "This is the best Father's Day gift."
I turned back to Georgia, "Hun, this is the
gift."
I opened the envelope and pulled out a note. "Dear, Michael." it
began. I looked
at Georgia. The tear on her cheek reflected the
morning sun coming through the window
across the room. I turned and read the rest.
"Happy Father's Day! This is the moment we
dreamed about before we married. We have our
Vanessa. Now we have to plan for a
Justin." She signed it, "I Love You, Michael!
You're going to be a great daddy."
I looked at her again, "Thank you, Georgia. I'll do my best."
"There's more." she smiled.
"What do you mean?"
"In the envelope."
I picked it up and opened it again. In the bottom was a colorful
piece of cloth. I
pulled it out. It was a cloth bookmark with
vibrant bands of color. White fringes dangled
from each end. It reminded me of a Mexican
serape. I draped it over my hand and looked
at Georgia. "I love it."
"Michael." she said. "It's just a bookmark. I wanted to get you
more."
"Georgia, I love it. It will always be special - my first Father's
Day gift."
"I love you." she said.
I sniffed the air. "Do you smell something?" I asked.
"What?"
I set the bookmark aside and changed my first diaper.
#####
On weekends, I did the midnight
feedings. I sat and read. The house was quiet.
Through the baby monitor, I heard Vanessa
stirring. Her small cry crackled through the
speaker. I placed my Father's Day gift between
the pages of my book.
#####
I cradled Vanessa in my arm. I held
her bottle with one hand and my book with
the other. Her tiny chin quivered as she
suckled. My gaze bounced from my book to her.
The bookmark was draped over my thigh.
#####
Justin was born. Vanessa, now
three, slept in her very first bed. I held my
newborn son in my arms. The house cracked as it
contracted in the sub-zero temperatures
outside. The bookmark rested on the back of the
sofa. Justin snuggled against my chest.
#####
The job I held for fifteen years in Halifax,
Nova Scotia disappeared. Everyone slept. I sat
studying. I was back in school and stressed. When I finished my studies, I
picked up my book, opened it, and slipped the bookmark into the pages ahead,
marking things to come.
#####
I found a new job, but it was in
Saint John, New Brunswick. I sat on my bed in a
lonely room. Georgia, Vanessa, and Justin were
in Nova Scotia. I rented a room in a
home in Saint John, New Brunswick. I tried to
read, but tears made the words blurry.
I missed my wife and children. I placed the
bookmark between the pages, turned off the
light, and cried into my pillow. It would be a
year before they would be able to join me.
The bookmark, its fringes frayed, dangled from
both ends of my book.
#####
Three years later, after another
move, I sat on my deck in Hilliard, Ohio. Justin
stepped out. "Dad, wrestling is cool. I love
it."
Vanessa, now sixteen, joined him, "Dad, they made me second in
clarinet!"
I hugged them both. "Way to go, guys!"
The kids went to their rooms. Steaks sizzled on the grill. I pulled
the bookmark
from my book, placed it on the patio table, and
read. Life was good.
#####
"Hun, I'll get home when I can." I
said to Georgia. My job in Ohio was gone. I
took an offer in New Jersey. We decided she
would stay in Ohio, so Vanessa could finish
her senior year of high school. Georgia and
Justin would join me in Jersey in ten months.
I stood on the New Jersey side of the Hudson River. Manhattan
sparkled in front
of me. Miles of buildings, windows full of
light, stretched out in both directions - a
dazzling display.
Back in my apartment, I settled into bed, picked up my book, and
thought about
the day my family could join me and see the
view. I pulled my bookmark from my book
and placed it on the covers beside me. It was
worn after years of use. I spoke to it.
"We've been through a lot. We can get through
more."
I dozed off in my new surroundings. The book rested on my chest,
rising and
falling with each breath I took. My bookmark
lay beside me. I turned in my sleep. The
bookmark slid to the floor.
#####
Eleven months later, I sat in a
chair reading. Georgia lay on the sofa. She'd
been in New Jersey for three weeks. My son
slept upstairs in his new bedroom. My
daughter stayed in Ohio to attend college.
Georgia stirred and moaned - her organs
failing from years of alcohol abuse. While I
was away, her liver failed and then her
kidneys. I feared her end was ear.
Her eyes opened. "Michael?"
"I'm here, Hun."
"I'm thirsty. Can you get me a drink?"
I placed the worn bookmark between the pages. "What would you like,
Hun?
Do you want juice?"
She shook her head. "Is Vanessa home yet?"
"Georgia, Vanessa is in Ohio. She's not here." I replied.
"Oh! I forgot." she smiled weakly.
I made her a cup of tea. She sipped it carefully as she stared
blankly at the
television. The bookmark rested on my thigh
again. "Michael?"
I looked up. "Yes?"
"Is Vanessa home yet?" Georgia asked again.
"She's still in Ohio, Hun."
"Oh, right. I forgot." Her eyes closed. She drifted off to sleep.
I placed my bookmark between the pages, put my book down and went to
bed. Tears filled my eyes. I wished my wife
could climb the stairs to join me.
#####
The bookmark stretched across my
stomach, I held my book in front of me,
not reading. On the television, a sitcom blared
unwatched. My friends had left. Justin
slept in his room. Vanessa, who came from Ohio,
slept in the spare room. Georgia's
ashes rested in her urn on the credenza. My
children were with me again, but I was alone.
I grabbed the bookmark, marked my spot, and carried my book to my
empty
bed. "Lord, I don't want to be alone." I
prayed. "I want love in my life."
#####
The sun warmed my back. Ginny sat
in the chair across the patio table from me.
Love was in my life again. I lifted the
bookmark from my lap, marked my page, stared at
her, and said, "Ginny, I love you."
She looked up, put her book down, and smiled at me. "I love you
too."
"I love you more." I smiled back. "Now back to our reading."
We picked up our books and read. The bookmark rested on my lap.
#####
Ginny slept beside me on the sofa.
I spread my bookmark across her thigh and
stared at it. The white fringes were long gone.
There's a spot where it must have torn.
I don't remember when, but I can see the loving
stitches that hold it together. The whites
are grey. The bright bands of color are faded.
It can't be washed. I fear it will fall apart.
I lifted it from Ginny's thigh and placed it between the pages of my
book.
"Ginny?" I shook her shoulder.
"Hmm? she moaned.
I shook her again, "Ginny, time for bed, Hun."
"Yes?"
"Come on, Hun. Let's go to bed." I took her hand in mine. "Come on,
Hun."
We climbed the stairs. I held her hand with one of mine. In my
other, I carried my
book. The tattered bookmark dangled from each
end.
I sat up in bed. Ginny slept beside me. I pulled the bookmark from
my book and
looked at it again. We'd been through a lot and
both showed our age. Like its tassels, my
hair is mostly gone. Its middle is folded in
from years of being pressed together between
the pages of countless books.
My middle is folding out from years of good food and not enough
exercise.
My bookmark started out marking spots in my books. I've come to
realize, it
didn't just mark the pages of my books, it
marked the pages of my life.
Michael T. Smith
Follow-up: The story continues. I now live in
Idaho with Ginny and her daughter and
our grandchildren. Twenty-four years later, the
bookmark is still with me.
Why I call you "Friends who Wave Back".
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I stared at the monitor, watched the words, interrupted by spaces,
flow from
left to right across the screen. Line-by-line, the screen filled. The words
formed sentences
and then paragraphs. Moments before, they were thoughts in my head - a personal
thing
- but now flowed from me in streams to be shared with anyone who cared to read.
I watched the words string together like pearls on a necklace, each
one
complimenting the other. A story formed. My fingers danced over the keyboard.
Thoughts, words, sentences, and paragraphs became an endless chain.
I glanced down and realized I was touch-typing. It's a skill I don't
have. I looked
at the screen and tried to type without looking, but the fingers that once
danced so
gracefully began to stumble. The pearls knotted. Words became the gibberish of a
child
just learning to speak.
I thought about my grandson Benny. He rode his bike, training wheels
holding
him steady. The time came when the training wheels no longer touched the ground.
He'd
gained the balance and confidence needed to stay up right - to go on his own.
His daddy
removed the training wheels. "Ben, you don't need these anymore."
"But what if I fall?" Benny asked.
"I'll hold your seat until you're ready." Nathan assured his son.
Benny climbed onto his bike and began to pedal. Nathan held the
seat. Ben was
fine until Nathan said, "OK! You're on your own. Go, Benny!"
Benny rode steady for several feet, wobbled and fell. He picked
himself up and
whined. "Daddy, I can't do it!"
Like me, Benny was fine as long as he knew there was someone to
support him.
With my typing, I needed my eyes. On their own, my fingers failed me. Benny
needed
the knowledge that the training wheels or his daddy would be there when he
stumbled.
My life has been full of those "First-Step" moments. I hugged my Mum
and
thanked her for holding my seat until I was steady enough to pedal into a new
life.
She hugged me on the day I married my first wife Georgia. "Michael,
I'm proud
of you." She let go. I pedaled on.
I held my first child and was afraid. Was I strong enough to hold
their seat until
they were ready to ride?
One day I held Georgia's hand. She prepared for a new ride. She took
her last
breath. I let go. She pedaled on.
I was alone. I stumbled. One of the hands that held me steady was
gone. I was
alone far from home and family. I pedaled, wobbled, and crashed a few times.
Ginny came into my life. Her ride had been unsteady too. Her first
husband
Harvey died several months before Georgia. In each other, we found a hand to
hold our
seat when we wobbled.
I then learned about a hand that is always there to hold me steady.
The hand
allows me to ride, but when I wobble, it holds my seat. It steadies me. You have
that
same hand. It's your God. He's always there. He's always ready to hold your
seat. He
wants you to ride, but when you begin to wobble, he's there to hold you up. You
have to
have faith in his hand.
He'll hold your seat.
Michael T. Smith
Why I call you "Friends who Wave Back".
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When I confronted my daughter after she hurt
another child with a mean comment, she cried and immediately wanted to
apologize. That was a good thing, but I wanted her to know an apology can't
always make things better.
I told her the parable of Will, a 9-year-old whose father abandoned his mum two
years earlier. Will was angry, and he often lashed out at others with hurtful
words. He once told his mom, 'I see why Dad left you!'
Unable to cope with his cruel outbursts, she sent
him to his grandparents for the summer. His grandfather's strategy to help Will
learn self-control was to make him go into the garage and pound a two-inch-long
nail into a four-by-four board every time he said a mean thing.
For a small boy, this was a major task, and he couldn't return until the nail
was all the way in. After about ten trips to the garage, Will began to be more
cautious about his words. Eventually, he even apologized for all the bad things
he'd said.
That's when his grandmother stepped in. She told him to bring in the board
filled with nails and instructed him to pull them all out. This was even harder
than pounding them in, but after a huge struggle, he did it.
His grandmother hugged him and said, 'I appreciate your apology, and of course I
forgive you because I love you, but I want you to know an apology is like
pulling out one of these nails. Look at the board. The holes are still there.
The board will never be the same. Your dad put a hole in you, Will, but please
don't put holes in other people. You're better than that.'
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by Michael Josephson
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It's a Dad's Job
"Dad, do they have roller
coasters?" Justin asked.
We passed under the sign, "Welcome to King's Island!"
"They sure do!" I forced a smile. It'd been over fifteen years since
I road a
coaster. The pounding of my heart equaled my
son's - for different reasons.
He was only eleven, so I took him on an easy coaster. I wanted his
experience
to be positive. We climbed into a middle car,
barred ourselves in, and began the slow
climb up the first, relatively-small hill. Our
car crested the top and slipped over the edge.
We both gripped the bar holding us in and
screamed - him with delight and me with
horror.
We plunged to the bottom of the first drop and zipped over a series
of small hills.
I gripped the bar holding me in with a death
grip, as my body floated off the seat with
each drop. I held my breath and looked at
Justin. His hands were in the air. A daredevil's
grin split his face. We ripped around a
45-degree bank and braked to a halt. The ride was
over. Justin hopped out. I crawled.
"Yes!" Justin screamed and punched his left fist to the sky. "Dad,
that was
awesome!"
He skipped down the steps from the coaster. "You liked it?" I
grabbed the railing.
My legs felt weak.
"Oh, Man! What a rush! Dad, can we do more?" I saw my day spiral out
of
control. The boy was hooked.
"There's another one, Dad! Can we ride it?"
I looked at the sign. "The Beast - The World's Most Famous Wooden
Roller coaster." According to the sign, it was
the longest wooden rollercoaster in the
world - 7400 feet of track, two lift hills that
spread out over thirty-five acres. It topped
sixty-five miles per hour and ended with a 540
degree helix.
"Justin?" I glanced at my son and then at the rails that towered
over our heads.
"Are you sure you're ready for that?"
"Come on, Dad! It looks like fun!" He rushed to the gate.
"Justin..." I began.
"Dad, hurry up! The line is short."
I took a deep breath, looked up at the track again, swallowed my
fear, and
trudged after him. "OK! OK! I'm coming!"
"This is going to be a blast, Dad!" He grinned and pulled the
restraining bar
down over his shoulders.
Our train began to move. I listened to the clack-clack-clack, as the
motors and
chains pulled our car to the top of the first
hill. I looked around. The clouds seemed
larger. The temperature dropped - in my veins.
The wind grew stronger. The curvature
of the earth came into view just before we
dropped from the mouth of "The Beast."
My hands gripped the bars. A young girl screamed a pitch high enough
to break
glass - it was my scream. The cords of my neck
drew taught. My eyes popped from their
sockets. "Justin, we're going to die!" I
yelled. His lips moved, but the wind took his
reply away.
We slammed to the bottom, ripped up the next hill, and rounded the
first turn.
The old wooden track was rough. The disks in my
back rattled together as we ripped
through turn-after-turn. Justin and I screamed
- for different reasons. Ahead of us, the
other passengers had their hands lifted in the
air and yelled for joy. Behind us, my
screams of panic floated in our back draft.
We flew over the last hill, swerved through the last turn, and
jerked to a halt.